Different people have different beliefs ranging from very dogmatic to very liberal regarding sex before marriage. Some people also have sex with the partner they decide to marry and then eventually marry him/her. If you are one of those people, I would stress that PLEASE WAIT UNTIL YOU MARRY THE ONE no matter how 'pushy' your man/woman-to-be is.
But if you do end up in circumstances that you cannot avoid it, PLEASE HAVE SAFE SEX no matter how 'careless' your man/woman-to-be is.
well i heard and read many stories what happened in pakistan .. i dont think u can trust anyone in the whole world anymore.. ppl thought girls in pakistan are very seedhi saadhi, but now u cant even trust them anymore... very chalaak, uppar se kuch, ander se kuch aur.. i really got shocked .. things i heard ..
i think if ur not a virgin u shouldnt be expecting a virgin bride... pakistan is becoming more like any place in the world...u have ur dance clubs...after rubbin up all on each other wat did u think was going to happen?