do girls and guys of pakistan have sex before marriage if yes then why such things happen and who is responsible for it,how r girls and guys are identified that wheather they are VIRGIN or not.
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Never officially, but there are always rumours. Allah O Alim. It is a big sin to accuse someone chaste of such acts. So I never pay attention unless there is real proof.
And even girls can't be identified. Some girls have more blood than others, the first time during wedding night. Other girls have no blood at all which causes the guy to think she's not a virgin! Many girls have gotten in trouble for nothing because of that!
I think one can have a doctor check out if a female is a virgin or not. But the blood thing is something one can't trust at all.
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yes
no need to explain THAT
both partners
they arent identified..
as sadya said, blood factor cant be used for judging.. even there is no SOLID doctor’s way of finding that out..
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Just ask...
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lmao, ask her if she's virgin or not.. simple as that.
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Well as faizy is saying that there is no need to explain that why they do such things but i think this question must be answered is it because the youngsters think that love is all about sex and if u love someone then just go for it however its a sin or is it because that girls and guys of pakistan think that by doing such things they are getting more on the western side and following western ppl blindly not even thinking that what they are actually doing,opinions are welcome.
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Umm…I could be wrong BUT I think what Faizy meant by saying that there’s not need to explain why they do it is b/c the reason they’re doing it is hormones. I doubt most teens in Pakistas(or any other Asian country for that matter) analyze that reason for having sex the way you are…they do it b/c they’re horny, they find a guy/girl who’s equally horny, and they find the opportunity for it…Simple.
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funguy: This is NOT a GRAMMAR class.
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I agree with faizy and lost. Although its not a universal fact they all of them do it, some do and the reasons are hormones and availability.
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^I don't know which part of Pakistan u come from, but its very uncommon in Pakistann for engaged people to have sex before marriage.
Not too long ago, (some)bride and groom used to see each other the first time on the day of marriage
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^ Read my reply again. I said "some"
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^ Are they dumb? 
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I conoclast engaged people don't have sex with each other, bt they have sex with others. and it is a very natural act, al men and women have feelings for each other, it happens everywhere in the world. it is an individual's choice really, so why the fuss? I believe that people are answerble to God not other people.
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Not really, at least the partner(to-be) has right to know if s/he had sex in past.
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I agree with you My wish. Perfectly put :k:
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u ask many Q in ur one post
in pakistan e'thing happens same like here
if yes than it happens just because there are some desparate young people like here in pak too..
who is responsible ..offcourse the couple who did that mess up is responsible...
and i think they don't need any indentification because they better know wat they did!!
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rights? no hell no.. dont bring rights into *THIS SPECIFIC * scenario.. :-)
"husband" 's right starts from the rishta being accepted by both parties, (in the form of mangni, acceptance like few ancestors sitting down or whatever the case is) ..
so what girl (or guy:p) did BEFORE should NOT be other party/partner's concern..
now, AFTER that point in the timeline frame, if anything goes, the guy AND the girl should be telling..
see before girl's entry in guy's life, or guy's entry in girl's life, the partner wasnt there IN THAT ROLE
so no, dont bring rights into this.. :-) if 1 doesnt like to share the past, 2nd DOES NOT CARRY THE RIGHT TO DIG IT! BUT from THAT point on, yes rights are there..