**do girls and guys of pakistan have sex before marriage
**Yes, i've heard that young ppl over there r involved in this, but like sadya said it is wrong to accuse w/out proof...it's just wot i've heard.
*if yes then why such things happen
**They happen, for the same reasons they happen in any country...
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and who is responsible for it,
*Erm, i believe it is the couple themselves who r responsible for their actions...who else...it is something they choose to do thus, their responsiblity.
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how r girls and guys are identified that wheather they are VIRGIN or not.
**Well like others have said, u can't always tell...with girls, the bleeding thing is different for every girl...and i don't think u can (physically) with a guy...the best thing for both ppl involved, is to ask.
sex before marriage does happen in Pakistan....but its not as common....as it is in Europe or North America..or let's just say other non-muslim ..wetern country...but of course ppl do have sex....even in grade 9-10....but it depends ALOT on ur schooling...ur friends and the ppl u hang out with...
Alot of ppl that do it in Pakistan....i mean young ppl....r usually the ones who at one point have lived outside of Pakistan..or are toooo much impressed/influenced by wut they see on cable .....but then again...I'm generalizing...but that's wut I observed...
Here...in North America...it's a lot more common...of course pakistani gurls and boys have sex....just like any other person on this planet...
Just becuz we're Pakistani..or Muslim...we're not out of this world...we might pretend to be more pious and better than others....but we all have the same body parts...and the same hormones.. :0)
May be when you come out of la-la land you’ll know what I mean
I know atleast TWO marriages where they had to go separate ways because the guy didn’t know girl’s “past” and the girl was still carrying “emotions” from that past into her marriage and couldn’t last longer. I’m sure there are many more cases like that.
Where our generation be thinking about values, ideological strengths, history, Quran, Hadith, Fiqh, Sociology, economics etc, great figures in Islamic history, know what they are as an Islamic nation, they are concentrating on talking about sex before marriage.
Dil murda dil naheen isey zinda kar dobara keh yehi hai azal sey umatoon ka gehwara
Is sarab-e-Raang o boo ko gulistan samjha hai tu
Aah aey nadaan qafas ko ashiyaan samjha hai tu
Sabaq phir parh sadaqat ka adalat ka shujaat ka
Liya jaey ga tujh sey kaam duniya ki imamat ka
well dear author,thousands of youngsters r doing illegal sex in pakistan...many things r responsible for tht...increasing use of cable,net cafes,availablity of adult movies,co education,too much impressed by western style of life and also indian movies
by having sex, you've just done one of the most banal things in the world. there's 6 billion people on earth, so plenty of sex. so once u've scored for the first time, don't start jumping up and down grinning: "Yeah, I've had sex".
There are many people who ("dare to") do it but not officially. Most people who have done it or do it are children from either very modern and liberal families or boys/ girls who have a very limited/restricted freedom.
Only Allah knows who is chaste, even virgins sometimes dont spot!
