how common is it for women to use sex as a weapon in their relationships? I know ideally sex shouldn’t be a weapon..but how many people really follow ideals any ways? does it really work as a bartering tool? or does it end up backfiring, i.e., weakening the relationship or the man looking for it elsewhere etc?
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ppl might try it, but i dont think its effective any more instead it is the reason for growing cases of cheating :k:
You mean on the same woman? :nono:
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I doubt if it is very advisable "to use sex as a weopon in relationship," not least because the man can go find it elsewhere. And that, to say the least, hardly bodes well for the relationship.
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Using sex as a weapon or using threat of divorce as a weapon - really really bad moves. When a spouse is upset over something, state it. State your case clearly and without emotional static and interference if you want to have a good outcome. Start using sex and divorce threats and be prepared to pay the price that it costs to play "dirty".
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It’s one thing to deliberatly use it as a weapon. I think it would be another to say you have a headache when you’re annoyed with them, because you can’t really have an orgasm with a person you’re angry at.
Unless you’re into whips and stuff, in which case, the more fighting, the merrier :k:
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Neither man nor woman should use it as 'weapon'.
Regardless one can achieve orgasm or not, both owe this to each other.
It is even more sinister and selfish to think if the person himself/herself can achieve orgasm with sex. Sex is about giving, not taking. 'Result' comes naturally anyway.
Adding here however:
Perfectly legitimate reasons for divorce are:
1- Not able to obtain sex from spouse. (Denial from the spouse)
2- Spouse is impotent or not able to procreate.
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Is it only women using sex as a weapon or men do it too ? I think they can . Not sure though :p
Says who?? 
Typical jaahil soch.
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Sadzz: No.
I can do anything/everything on my own. Only one thing men are good for anymore, these days.
lol… Thank you.
Sadzz: No.
I can do anything/everything on my own. Only one thing men are good for anymore, these days.
lol... surely they are good at more than just that...even that's questionable though
seriously though.. men or women who use sex as a weapon or a way of controlling their spouse are the real losers in the end.... what are they gaining from not doing it? are they saying they are completely ok with being abstinence?
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Many ppl do use it as a weapon but not v.smart imo I mean in all likelihood if it's held back too long wouldn't the other person get fed up and decide to go elsewhere.. Not saying it's right obviously but I know of plenty of ppl who reasoned in their heads 'my other half isn't giving it to me so I'll get it from someone else'
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If a woman pulls this, then can we really blame the dude for looking elsewhere? be it flirting or even a physical relationship?
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^ No , we cannot .
Ok ok we can 
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^ well yes he should be blamed.. cus it seems that the only thing that really matters to him is sex. Rather than trying to address the issue on hand, he's trying to find a solution elsewhere to an outcome of an issue.
Shows real maturity doesnt it?
If one is being childish by using sex as some kind of way to make the man realise something, than the other is being just as stupid
If ur married... and want a marriage to succeed then sit down with ur relative partner and fix the issues... simple
If a woman pulls this, then can we really blame the dude for looking elsewhere? be it flirting or even a physical relationship?
His actions will still be bad.
Better way is to discuss and resolve issues.
Using sex as weapon is not a permanent solution..
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^ But it can lead to permanent dissolution.