^ Personally, I don’t think there is anything wrong with a guy helping out his family, especially if they need it. If a guy knew that his family needed help and he was able to help them but didn’t, it would diminish him significantly in my eyes as it implies he:
(a) Is rather self centered and unempathetic
(b) Does not care about his family
(c) Is not keen on having responsibility or commitment
(d) All of the above
That said, helping family should be within reason, within one’s means and there should be a balance. A guy should not ignore his responsibilities toards his children (you know, the ones he brought into the world) because all of his money is going towards supporting his siblings, nieces, nephews, and his long lost second cousin from Brazil.