And I would take the liberty to add - it is a lot convenient for me to sit on my butt and rant about prostitution and other social evils and even easier to act all Mulla McKenzie. What I need to ask myself is, what part have I played in their eradication or helping the victims? If the answer is "none", I would rather zip it and get back to watching my favorite tv show.
I definitely see what you're saying here. I have worked with prostitutes (field work), and I am a counselor and advocate for trauma/assault victims. I wish everyone would get off their butts and do something to help others.
I gotta agree 2 with the man ponkmonk to some way.
I also understand deebas viewpoint.
I also live in u.k. And certainly having a friend like that is a bad influence, how many a times do we attarcted or tempted into things we shun by eventual influence of peers.
Things start off light, but as you know one thing leads to another..
and Dude Monk, you cant critize somebody having friends like that, because they may be into bf.gf stuff themself, especially more likely living in west, so from thier perception isnt such a serious thing to as others more 'narrow-minded' persons like us.
no offence, but deeba you shud tell ur 'mate' to be fearful of God if he is muslim, and if he is what a bloody shame on him.
agreed.
but not being virgin is one thing and and have sex using money is different thing.
I have nothing against ppl who had relation. But here we are talking about ppl calling womenizer a decent person.
PM, u’re the one replying here so u elaborate! IF u knew that person and were friends with them.. u’d end all contact cuz they’ve been with prostitutes? Knowing what they’re upto and THEN befriending them is another issue alltogether!
U react to anything related to this topic.. nothing new
PM, u're the one replying here so u elaborate! IF u knew that person and were friends with them.. u'd end all contact cuz they've been with prostitutes? Knowing what they're upto and THEN befriending them is another issue alltogether!
U react to anything related to this topic.. nothing new :)
YES!!! I rathe be friend with a prostitute because they are victims.
I see amazing ppl all over, even on GS. When I need friend I pick a person and make him my friend . amazing ppl. where I came from every one is decent. Infact we find non decent person we talk to them and enjoy!!
now
Other then a work/social-work relation what could be my possible connection with womenizer/child molester etc??? I don't seek advatages even from my own parents, VERY PROUD SOB I AM!!!! So NO !! I would cut my self lose from such a person.
I know ppl!!! I have been friends with prostitutes!!!! I have seen cruality first hand, It aint pretty. Trust me if its not for money pros, would kill those men for touching them. Thats how much they hate them.
They intoxicate them self to bear the "labor"
They get STDs from those men!!! normally young girls. no one wants old ones!!!!
NOW HERE COMES OUR HERO WHO SITLL FIND "THAT" WOMEN EXOTIC ENOUGH TO GET HIM SELF READY FOR BUSINES..
DECENT???
Please correct me if I am wrong are we saying that: some one being "women exploiter" is one issue and being friends with them is another issue ?
I understood right?
Well I met the guy who had sex with dead body in pakistan, swear to god very decent man.(in FSD central jail ) Would that be ok to be his friend???
There is a whole culture in pak/afg man having S with young boys, would it be ok for some one to be friends with them ?? Because in pakistan I just wanted to kill them!! May be I am not decent enough??
I guess we could leave those question for later, first lets determine if we consider them human??
How a normal person can have any relation with them then say helping them getting out of this situation.
PlayStaion:: now you don;t have ask any one since I "elaborated"!
You created an ID to ask this question?? Alright, you tell me who you really are and I will tell you what is a Mulla McKenzie. Otherwise you can go check with Maulana Haggis.
I gotta agree 2 with the man ponkmonk to some way.
I also understand deebas viewpoint.
I also live in u.k. And certainly having a friend like that is a bad influence, how many a times do we attarcted or tempted into things we shun by eventual influence of peers.
Things start off light, but as you know one thing leads to another..
and Dude Monk, you cant critize somebody having friends like that, because they may be non-virgin or so themself, especially more likely living in west, so from thier perception isnt such a serious thing to as others more 'narrow-minded' persons like us.
no offence, but deeba you shud tell ur 'mate' to be fearful of God if he is muslim, and if he is what a bloody shame on him.
He isn't Muslim. Don't really want to get into a long-drawn argument on here, everyone is entitled to their opinion. The bottom line is if it was me in that situation where I had done something v.v.bad but had repented I would hope that somebody might help me.
I WOULD NEVER LET MY SHAREEF SISTER BE FRIENDS WITH SOMEONE LIKE THAT!
ITS NOT THE PROBLEM BEING FRIENDS WITH A 'DIFFERENT' PERSON IS, ITS THE PROBLEM OF THE LIKELY INFLUENCE AND NEGATIVE EFFECT HE COULD HAVE ON MY SIS.
The friend might still as a person be a cool, nice person, but it is still not good nor safe having such negative influences around.
I understand ur point Mr Monk, but you goota be neutral and look at things from both sides before verdicting/commanding.
I also know people that r into this stuff, they are nice people, but still watching what they do does not have good effect on me, so i rather keep a distance or dissasociate them.
You are known by the company you keep, so hell yes a persons actions/character are important.
be respectful to them, no need to go after them with a burning stake, but why surround urself with such people? If not just for the negative influence, but as well as own reputation. If you have to deal with them ona professional/academic basis, so be it.
Thanx Gina, nice to know that not everyone sees things only in black + white
Well, we say one inappropriate we get rip apart here on GS by girls. And here some has such a big heart for perpetrators?
you know why because they dressed well when you saw them?
you have any idea how one womenizer tell other womenizer which girl to go for ??
You want me quote few discussions here ?
Now you think this person wont scan your body "deeply"?
I have stories to tell, I bet you or Gina wont have stomach to even read them!!
I WOULD NEVER LET MY SHAREEF SISTER BE FRIENDS WITH SOMEONE LIKE THAT!
ITS NOT THE PROBLEM BEING FRIENDS WITH A 'DIFFERENT' PERSON IS, ITS THE PROBLEM OF THE LIKELY INFLUENCE AND NEGATIVE EFFECT HE COULD HAVE ON MY SIS.
The friend might still as a person be a cool, nice person, but it is still not good nor safe having such negative influences around.
I understand ur point Mr Monk, but you goota be neutral and look at things from both sides before verdicting/commanding.
I also know people that r into this stuff, they are nice people, but still watching what they do does not have good effect on me, so i rather keep a distance or dissasociate them.
Amir I had a cousin who had boyfriend/s, Non V.
Still I won't let any R-baaz be around her. Girl did what she di with the boy he liked.
But a R-baaz come on.
Well you may say what you want, but sadly, the womanizers are well respected members of every community, they are rich, smart and handsome. They yield considerable influence in social circles, so be it men or women, people don't mind their company rather try to get it.
SIGH
common sense is not very common honey! Smartest ppl tend to wrap there intelligence with most ridicules ideologies. I did that for long long time but I was a teenager and I certainly WAS NOT a GIRL. I was practically a saint, but had repetition of a hmmm a devil.
Then I had our nephews, Then protection came into play. Then I figured "knowing" right and wrong is not enough. You have act accordingly. you are always some one's "some one".
you don;t to bring shame to them. You have protect your self etc etc
Well you may say what you want, but sadly, the womanizers are well respected members of every community, they are rich, smart and handsome. They yield considerable influence in social circles, so be it men or women, people don't mind their company rather try to get it.
sigh
So true. One thing what we get, when we concentrate on God,
is that all meaning less thing become unimportant. Say like influence,money etc etc.
I mean if you are not getting that, you need to concentrate harder.
I mean is God only there for wazifas ?? I am sure NOT.
bad tweety!