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idk.. a newly wed who doesnt want to be up before noon or hang out with her hubby - all of my conclusions are too cruel to post. life1 i hate you for making me a monster on the inside too. :\
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idk.. a newly wed who doesnt want to be up before noon or hang out with her hubby - all of my conclusions are too cruel to post. life1 i hate you for making me a monster on the inside too. :\
queer, you were jaded LONG before life1 was a twinkle in Azkar's eyes.
If any of my sisters did this then I know we would not even pick her up if the this was the issue. She would have a harsh telling too.
She comes to sit with my mum for a bit of time in the mornings. She wakes up, prepares her three kids and takes them to school, comes back and sits with mum and mops and brushes up downstairs.
Even then she doesn’t have any resentment towards my wife because of me and my happiness.
If have spoken to her since and her sister has contacted me.
Firstly the wife didn’t show any remorse at the action she took at all.
Her sister sent a text that she has done nothing wrong in walking out because of the ‘unbearable circumstances she was suffering from’. These circumstances are believing that she’s not on talking terms with the sibling.
I asked the sibling and she stated that she was not aware that she had done anything wrong although she had spoken to her husband to speak to me as to why my wife was not on normal speaking terms with her.
She felt the same as my wife felt. Both not speaking properly with each other and both having spoken to their husbands about it. A misunderstanding at best.
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She comes to sit with my mum for a bit of time in the mornings. She wakes up, prepares her three kids and takes them to school, comes back and sits with mum and mops and brushes up downstairs.
Even then she doesn't have any resentment towards my wife because of me and my happiness.
Does your sister and her kids/husband live with you guys in the same home, or does she live close by?
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De Ja Vu
Throw your mom out of the house....or your wife.
She walked about 300 meters down the road to the nearest supermarket which was only open for staff and waited at the entrance for her sister and brother to pick her up.
I spent half an hour looking for her and saw drunk guy’s walking around enough times. Finally I found her but she wasn’t interested.
Family picked her up and she walked towards them a day they just waited for her and then left.
She lives close by.
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She's displaying a lack of interest in not only basic activities but also toward kind gestures from you (as per your last thread). Although perhaps she wants more verbal appreciation from you than materialistic. Was she like this from the very beginning of your marriage? Was she pressured or not interested in marrying you? Is there some demand of hers that you're not fulfilling or maybe can't...that she's become stuck on and can't move past? Or perhaps a serious past conflict between you n her or u n your family that she's been unable to move in from. Yes, her behavior is immature/off-putting....but as others above have asked....are you really that clueless about why she's behaving this way or are you omitting things?
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She lives close by.
So your wife doesn't want to spend time with your mom and she resents when your sister comes over and does spend time with her?
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She's displaying a lack of interest in not only basic activities but also toward kind gestures from you (as per your last thread). Although perhaps she wants more verbal appreciation from you than materialistic. Was she like this from the very beginning of your marriage? Was she pressured or not interested in marrying you? Is there some demand of hers that you're not fulfilling or maybe can't...that she's become stuck on and can't move past? Or perhaps a serious past conflict between you n her or u n your family that she's been unable to move in from. Yes, her behavior is immature/off-putting....but as others above have asked....are you really that clueless about why she's behaving this way or are you omitting things?
What if his wife is that rare woman who doesn't need a reason to not like his family - it's enough that it's his family.
She’s complained about literally everything. Stated that she left a gathering at my sisters and everybody hugged her and told her to take care as she was going back to her parents for two days BUT some people didn’t ask how her family was and that’s not acceptable.
Said to me that I don’t so anything for her beside provide a house, income and food.
How I get to live with my mum and she can’t go abroad with hers.
Why I don’t allow her to have a car, she can have one but we don’t need two as we can’t afford it and she is already insured on mine.
How I don’t show appreciation to her (read other thread).
I’m here for advice so it’s pointless in lying.
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I can't believe people on this forum are so willing to write off the wife. What woman walks out of her home at 1:30 in the morning? Unless she is extremely unhappy and doesn't know what else to do. Imagine if that woman is you. What circumstances would make you act the way Mrs. Najeeb is acting?
I don't think it is as simple as her being a brat. There is WAY more to this story than Najeeb is telling us or he is THE best troll life1 has seen.
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Based on his posts, his wife comes across as a very childish and immature person (and petty too!). I mean seriously, who walks out of the house at 1:30 A.M, no matter how emotionally distraught? And her demand that Najeeb should stop speaking to his sister, because she (his wife) perceives that the sister doesn't like her/doesn't talk to her etc., and she is not even going to the same room in which the said sibling is sitting. Is this woman for real??? You have to be ridiculously childish and petty to make this kind of demand. Hadd hai bhai.
No. Because supposedly they don’t talk to each other so my wfe stated that she will not sit anywhere where my sibling is even if she is there for the whole day.
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What if his wife is that rare woman who doesn't need a reason to not like his family - it's enough that it's his family.
It could be anything. Maybe she really is that rare breed of woman or something did happen that we don't know about. Still her behavior is ridiculous. Like in his last thread she doesnt bother explaining to what she wants. Divorce is a stigma for women in our culture....is she willing to risk that simply because she's that rare breed? I dunno.
i really wouldn’t be wasting my time and yours in seeking advice by putting forward incorrect information.
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No. Because supposedly they don't talk to each other so my wfe stated that she will not sit anywhere where my sibling is even if she is there for the whole day.
That's plain bad manners, there's no excuse for this sort of behaviour. (in my book)
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i really wouldn't be wasting my time and yours in seeking advice by putting forward incorrect information.
What about putting forward incomplete information?