Seriously...this whole supporting the parents business!

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Re: Seriously…this whole supporting the parents business!

@Deeba1234

If you give out love + respect to your sons and DILs imo you get love + respect back - usually..

Regarding the Islamic rights issue despite what our culture says** it’s actually all the kids’ responsibility to look after their parents, not just the sons..

**Imo if daughters also did their bit in looking after parents it would take away a lot of the resentment that the DIL might feel if she is being made to do too much work.

Beshak daughters should take care of their mother but if mother doesn’t need any special support except financial and house to live… why daughter in law DOES NOT keep her in her OWN son house?

My grandmother used to live with my mamoo when she got ill and paralyzed, my mother and other khalas went there and took care of my grandmother with my Momani. Alhamdulillah my Momani was taking care of her very well all alone as well but my mother and other khalas felt their responsibility to take care of her. So with mutual understanding my grandmother got all the attention at my mamoo’s place from her children. So in this type of cases yes daughters should be there as well but in cases where mother is healthy but need a house son should keep her with him.