Seriously...this whole supporting the parents business!

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Re: Seriously…this whole supporting the parents business!

@Ashy2010

I am talking about my future SIL agreeing to keep my mom (even though my brother will be giving her monthly expenses, my mom will need shelter and moms stay with their sons in our society).

I am just thinking about the worst case scenario (Allah na karay but from all the discussion happening on GS these days, I can’t stop myself from thinking about this). My future SIL asks my brother to just give my mom monthly expenses and she does not want her to stay with them. No one in the earth can force her. Of course we can convince her. But it will her right to live separately. And most of the guppans here say that husbands should be listening to their wives. Urrrgggg… Negative thinking

First of all Ashy… dont think so negatively. If you read all the views here, noone has denied the parents rights here. They all are saying that if husband parents are well off and he is spending all his money on his parents and siblings luxuries then it is wrong. Otherwise they all said they OK if parents are dependent on son. Why you are thinking that SIL is some EVIL witch.

Remember if your brother leave your mother alone to please his wife .. he will has to be answerable in front of Allah.. because parents k haqooq bhi kuch hoty hain. You can not leave them alone.

But your case gives me another thought about my parents. As we are only three sister.. what will my parents do after my marriage. Thanks to Allah they are not dependent on others… my father is still working (May Allah gives them healthy life so that they won’t be dependent on others), but still i think about them specially when one of them will die (God Forbade)… how will the other one survive.