Re: Seriously…this whole supporting the parents business!
Mujh se tau jootay khai ga agar aisa karay ga tau. But what I gather from the views and opinions of majority of people here on GS, we cannot even force him and his wife. Of course, whatever tarbiat has mom provided to my brother, he will hopefully NOT be doing anything like that.
I just want to let people here know that sons have a responsibility towards their parents and wives should understand this. My mom is not the type asking for unnecessary money. She would even hide her need for medicines from her DIL just to keep her happy. It will be DEFINITELY on my brother to make sure my mom is supported and it will be upto him how he will manage his wife. Communication and understanding will be the key techniques. My mom will be my brother’s responsibility but he will be under his wife’s influence and he will have the responsibility to balance his mom and wife.