NomiCA
April 29, 2011, 6:43pm
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Re: Seriously…this whole supporting the parents business!
I just don’t understand why some girls keep on comparing themselves with husband’s parents. I dont know why they want to create and environment of “I” vs “them”. They should understand that equation is I and them and not I or them. There is nothing wrong in being "obsessed with being there for their parents " . When will girls understand that supporting parents SHOULD BE guys first priority (if they need a support) than buying iPhone or that “oh so pretty ear-rings” for wife and if this means I am not fulfilling my wife’s “needs” then be it! and finally, supporting parents DOES NOT MEAN ignoring wife…
Bhai G…yes…i also had that question in mind…
girls why don’t you understand that??
It will be upto my brother to be careful when choosing his life partner but there is no guarantee that his wife will continue to stay with my mom. My mom will need medical care and expenses because she has no source of income. Desi parents are willing to accept care and khidmat from daughters but for financial support/ living together, they look to their sons. How can we become so insensitive to our parents needs?
Hmm…whats wrong with you ashy? like seriously??
BTW…your mother has only your brother…and your SIL exercises her islamic right…what is he supposed to do then?? Ask your friends here and let me know too…
