Nikah naama jab computrized registered honay jata hai, us waqt larki kay pass option hoti hai ke wo apna surname change kar sakti hai
lekin ap nay shayed suna nahi "Kuri munda razi to kya karay ga qazi"
yeah but i am talkin about the first name...
a friend of mine didnt liked her first name so changed it during teh nikah...and when they registered the marriage her new name and name of hubby as surname became valid...
Naa -_- yahan to becharey larkey ko pata hi nai hoga key aunti ki age kya hey
mind it...dude is 21....and aunty has a minimum age of 31..(i even think she is older than that but okay)
Well some People hide so many things intentionally,Not just age, But I really don't understand why there's need to use internet for a Nikkah, I mean meeting and liking someone on internet is different thing. But seriously Nikkah?.
sorry i lost you...there is no internet dating involved?
jab ap laywer kay pass jatay ho, un kay pass already he molvi hotay hain, jo sab kaam kar detay hain jesa ap chaho, 10-15000 PKR, thoray say zayyada do tu witnesses ki bhi zaroorat nahi, wo apnay witnesses khudi bana letay hain.
fake ID for paperwork but real name for (shari and jayaz) nikah
Noo noo...nikah is done proper way...so no money for the witnesses...they did signed and i even think that they didn't knew anything about it till the nikah.... and if they knew.... i mean un ki khud ki bhi betiyan heyn...allah na karrey kal ko un key saath esa kuch ho jaye what then :S
phir ap ko koi ghalat fehmi hogi zaroor itni age ka faraq hai tu zaroor ye love marriage hai,ye faraq larka sirf apni family say chupanay kay liyay kar raha hai, ye zaroor love marriage hogi, lekin larka larki ki real age janta hoga
Nope… it aint love marriage…100000%
the rishta was done through someone reliable…
i just dont know if it is the fault of the person who has done the rishta or what
sorry i lost you...there is no internet dating involved?
Noo noo...nikah is done proper way...so no money for the witnesses...they did signed and i even think that they didn't knew anything about it till the nikah.... and if they knew.... i mean un ki khud ki bhi betiyan heyn...allah na karrey kal ko un key saath esa kuch ho jaye what then :S
wo tu mein waisay hi bata raha tha ke paison say kitna kuch mumkin hai idhar. yahan tu family bhi involved thi ba-qaida arrangements hoi hongi.
Nope.... it aint love marriage...100000%
the rishta was done through someone reliable...
i just dont know if it is the fault of the person who has done the rishta or what
but no love marriage 10000%
phir tu kafi heran kun baat hai, aur kafi bara risk liya hai unhon nay, buthat sari jaghon par baat kuch beth nahi rahi, like larkay walay us larki ki SIL ko bhi dekh chukay aur mil chukay hongay shadi par agar nahi tu zaroor dekh lein gay, den wat about pic and name on ID? they will get to know, chahay us larki na fake id ki details say apni new identity lay li ho, lekin phir bhi its too risky
sorry i lost you...there is no internet dating involved?
Oh Okay, I am Sorry. I assumed it, Because I only heard about these kinda cases happening through internet matrimony sites. So the guy and his family didn’t see that girl in real before Nikkah....Strange.
That's not fair to say. Not everyone is clever and know how to deal in matters of proposals / rishta. I attended a walima last year and the girl was said to be 19 years old and the guy was 25 years old. I swear she looked older than him. Very pretty but older looking. I was told by a fellow guest that this sort of age shifting is common in Pakistan. She told me people don't send their kids to school until they are at least 2-4 years older than other kids in the class and throughout their schooling every now and then hold the kid back a year. So consequently the child ends up being a lot younger than their biological age.
Lying on Nikkah forms happens, we had personal experiencs on that!
I hate how aunties keep changing their ages to be young forever! Some people I know of got their ages changed so they don’t go into the 30 zone. She’s 38 but gets very defensive if anyone ever mentions her real age
Maybe i’m not understanding the behind the scene situation here…
So the guys side went to ask for a rishta, and didnt see the “aunty”, but were shown an ID card, and the fams agreed?
Rishta pakka… date set… and nikkah bhi hogeya, but no one met the “aunty” or her SIL?
If she visually looks that old and it’s such a huge issue now, how was it not an issue before they tied the knot?
so lets get this straight.. didnt the guy meet with the lady before marriage? not even once? didnt his family visit the lady’s family a few times?
If he doesnt have issues with her looking aged and still got married , then who are we to target her and call her “aging aunty” or what ever .. thats just remarkably rude actually .
As far as the lady lying is concerned , she definitely did a really pathetic thing , I really wonder how such kind of marriages last , the entire foundation of them is set on lies and fraud
Is the problem the girl of her age, hence everyone referring to her as aunty?
Or is the problem that they lied, in which case I'm a bit surprised. I'm pretty sure if not the guy himself, then at least his mother/sister met the girl and if she is really "buddhi" as you're claiming, why didnt they see it? I suppose, as you describe it, her age must be showing, so the MIL couldnt tell if she is 25 or 35?
During the rishta process they saw the girl/aunty…i called her aunty cuz she s a sort of neighbour of us in pk and i always called her aunty.
The thing is that the boy side of fam s very poor and had 6 sons and i think 4/5 daughters too…i dont know why but they didn’t find any rishta in gujran wala or punjab so came via via some person to isl (to that aunty/ girl)…during the rishta process they told the fam that the girl s 20 (mind u that during the rishta process and nikah onlu the guy and the father of the guy and one brother came…the mother and rest of fam never came)…and the nikah was set up in a week time…so sunday rishta pakka (after meeting the girl) and next friday nikah)…
And during the nikah they gave the molvi the id card of the sil to fill in the drtaills on the nikah nama…
I think the guy doesn’t know her age…well actually he doesnt know her that wel! Just baak pakki direct nikah and ab december mey wedding! To me it was really shocking! But the boy side…i dont get them either…
Un ko shadi/ nikah ki itni kya parri hey that they do the rishta pakka without even trying to investigate somethin about the fam??
I start refering her as an aunty cuz i always called her aunty …the problem was hiding the age and doing nikah on thr id of the sil…
I actually have pix of the bride and groom during the nikah…but it would b unfair to post them…lkin i swear i aint over reactioln…the aunty s reallllyyyyyy aged! And the looks like a bacha …he doesbt even shaves his beard/moustage!!
And who told you they used someone elses ID? I dont understand the whole story.. Plus I dont think nikkah is unvalid, I mean they must have had witnesses and the groom and his father must know her fathers name .. so when they did the nikkah, they cant just use SILs fathers name even if they used her name .. It makes no sense.
But from what you’re seeing, it seems highly unlikely that the groom and his family have been totally clueless about the age. I’m pretty sure they know and there is some deal about it.
…the problem was hiding the age and doing nikah on thr id of the sil…
