Seriously is this normal?

Heard of a new trend in pk…

Fake id per nikah :bummer: i heard it many times but now it happened close to me…

Some neighbour of us in pk got married with the ID of her SIL (to cover her age) with a 8-10 year younger guy.

Larki side has hidden the age of the girl/(aunty) from the guy and his fam …but when u see her u can guess the age immediatly (she is really like an aging aunty) And when u see the guy, u just feel pitty for him (to get stuck with a aunty like her)

So my question to you guys is, does this happen often? I mean what if the guy fam finds out that their daughter in law is like 8-10 years older than the guy?

And is such kind of Nikah valid? Cuz if the date of birth is fake and the id number? the name will be fake too right? So if the name is fake…how can the nikah be valid?

Seriously Pakiis and ages was always a horror of hide and seek but these kind of sh** is freaky :bummer:

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anything is possible here with ROKRA, about nikah thing, its valid it has nothing to do with Fake ID. pehlay ye karna kafi asan tha, lekin after computerized ID abhi ye kum hota hai, lekin hota zaroor hai

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there is no money involved.
Larki kafi umar ki hogey thi so they have a young "murgha"
and fake id hi nai sirf... She used HER id card for nikah!
SO that means also the name of her bhabi...

So eventually in papers...if the guy wants to claim his " wife" according to the nikah nama...he can claim the bhabi? (cuz her details and name are written on the papers?)

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have seen it happening once but not in Pak, same thing girl 35 boy 25.

Seriously is this normal?

Wow... Aging aunty cover ups?? I thought it would just be a few years off like if the girl was 32 or something but they say she's 25. I don't think the scenario you described is normal at all. But then again maybe in that community or region it is?

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^As far as i know it never happened in the area…this is the first case.
I did heard stories like this from punjab etc (rishteys done by rishte wali masiis etc)

But this was just shocking :bummer:

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But in nikah molvi asks, apko filan larki ( girls name ) filan Ki beti ( fathers name ) qabool hai?
So this guy gets married with this girl whos name is in ID.

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havent u heard the joke "tenN wakhai hor tey ditti hor ae"

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Every thing faire in love and shadi

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Yeah thats what i thought too…
okay there is a law that a women can change her name during nikah…but they used allll teh details of the fake id :smack:

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Wow!! heard that people usually have a few years different on their own id cards but this is too much of an age gap.

What I dont understand is if the girl’s side did succeed in faking this whole thing somehow, aren’t they scared that once the guy finds out he may divorce her?? There is no guarantee that the guy will stick around after finding the truth??

As for the whole nikah in bhabhi’s name, isn’t it the girl in the Id who got married??

Also how can they claim this marriage in records as the bhabhi gets married twice?? :confused:

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u didnt mention about bhabhi's ID before, is case mein tu paperworks mein kafi ghapla hai, in future kafi problems face karni hongi unko agar tu aisi koi nobat aye tu.

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molvi nay nikah larki kay asal naam say parhaya hoga na ke Fake ID walay naam say, so (shari) tur par nikah valid hoga but on papers its not legal

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what name did the aalim read the nikkah with, if it was with a false name how is the nikkah valid islamically. :smack:
moreover how could he have taken name of another man’s daughter?

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true valid but illegal.
but if he knew of their intentions tu he had an obligation to refuse :hmmm:

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Real naam se kyu parhaya hoga?? Aur agar nikah real nam se parhaya to fake id Ki Kiya zaroorat phir??

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Nikah naama jab computrized registered honay jata hai, us waqt larki kay pass option hoti hai ke wo apna surname change kar sakti hai

lekin ap nay shayed suna nahi “Kuri munda razi to kya karay ga qazi”

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Also question that i wanted to know :confused: cuz i dunno i wonder what happens when they find out about the whole fake stuff… i mean according to the law…the SIL is “married” with the guy right??? -
i dunno how creative or bizar people in pk can get :S

I did mentioned it :slight_smile: *ome neighbour of us in pk got married with the ID of her SIL (to cover her age) with a 8-10 year younger guy. *SIL/ or Bhabi ( post #1)…but okay on teh point of asal naam and shari tor par jaiz…when he read her actual name…so like larki k anaam…daughter of…balabl…before signing u DO see the name right?! so the name on the nikah nama is fake and nikah is done right??

I have no idea about reading what name…i do know that the name on the nikah nama is fake…cuz that date of birth is filled in…and was given to the molvi/imam to fill in on the nikah papers :/…

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Well some People hide so many things intentionally,Not just age, But I really don't understand why there's need to use internet for a Nikkah, I mean meeting and liking someone on internet is different thing. But seriously Nikkah?.

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jab ap laywer kay pass jatay ho, un kay pass already he molvi hotay hain, jo sab kaam kar detay hain jesa ap chaho, 10-15000 PKR, thoray say zayyada do tu witnesses ki bhi zaroorat nahi, wo apnay witnesses khudi bana letay hain.