serious advice please

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Re: serious advice please

@khattichic

I’m sorry for your loss. It must be so tough, but your parents are right in wanting your Bhabi to move on with her life eventually. I’m not sure what your family situation is, but is it absolutely necessary for you three to live with other brother and Bhabi? Can you guys not get your own place near by?

Mom already offer this but brother doesnt listen and my parents are to quiet to make fuss

@STA

It is really bad to hear your loss. May Allah increase the status of your brother in paradise. I understand your parents situation and the reason of not living with your nice and widowed bhabhi. I believe she is young and possibly settle with other guy. I appreciate the nice gesture of your parents. It looks like your mean bhabhi is not giving respect to you and your parents and your brother is also helpless in front of his wife. Your brother is the only one who can bring peace in your home.

Another solution is to ask your bhai and bhabhi to arrange their housing at other location as it is your father’s home and she is not recognizing the given privileges. Before taking this step, you parents should raise their concern on the behavior of your mean bhabhi and if she persists with her attitude then throw them out with one month notice.

Islamically, your married brother has no right to live with you guys. Now, it is either your parents or brother call to resolve this issue.

ameen.
Dad says he already lost one son and hes not going to fight with the last one left and we have to make more effort with mean bhabi. Nice bhabi doesnt want to get married again and she already told my parents she is their daughter.