Separation to save our marriage

[Paheli00]

Re: Separation to save our marriage

@Nad_e_Ali

My uncle didn’t come because my in laws refused to discuss the problems with any outsider. And I am thinking of changing my mind about moving out after reading the above posts. I am going to speak with my husband and if he still wants to separate then he should be the one leaving not me. I really don’t care anymore even if he goes to Pakistan, maybe he really needs a vacation to get his mind functioning properly.

1. Why can’t your uncle talk to YOU about your legal options? I have no idea why your uncle is discussing ANYTHING with your in-laws.

2. Does your husband own the house (meaning is his name on the house title/deed)? And if you went back to the house and your in-laws/husband went to Pakistan, do you have enough money to run the home (pay all bill/grocery etc.)? Do you have childcare to help with the 2 kids while you continue classes?