Tempe5t
September 6, 2015, 10:41pm
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Re: Separation to save our marriage
My husband is not ready for any sort of counselling. We are not even communicating directly anymore. Before involving my side of the family, I asked him to let’s try and resolve the issues between ourselves but he asked his parents to contact mine to take me and the kids to their home. At first, my parents and I refused on separating because our problems are not so big for this step to be taken. I wanted to stay in my home and face the problems so they could be resolved quickly. But then my in laws threatened me that they will take my husband back to Pakistan if I don’t leave, and they seemed pretty serious about it. So I then decided to separate because currently, only I am trying to save this marriage and if i had not taken this decision then things could have gotten worse.
What kind of grandparents are okay with not seeing their grandkids and separating them from their father? Seriously what times are we living in? Age of jahiliya is far from over it seems.