Separation to save our marriage

[Nad_e_Ali]

Re: Separation to save our marriage

@StrangeOne

And wanted to add that you should start discussing custody of the kids. The 1 year old can’t leave you but the 4 year old can. Your husband is separating from his wife NOT his children. What kind of BS father kicks his kids out of the home. If you had asked earlier I would have flat out advised you to leave your kids behind. It goes against all your motherly instincts but dad needs to remember he’s a full time dad not time pass baby sitter.

These 4 months are going to be heaven for him without the responsibility of the kids so obviously divorce is going to be the option. You’re making his life way too easy.

The children will be staying with me even if divorce takes place. And I’m hoping that he might realize our importance in his life during our absence.