How do you deal with people who are sensitive?Do you find it easy?I think it’s very difficult to handle a sensitive person as you’ve to be really careful with your words and actions?What do you think?
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Here I will share it one more time just for you:
One parent in Pakistan told the teacher , " mera bacha bohat samjhdar aur hassas hay, agar iss ko koi baat samjhana ho to iss key brabar walay bachay key thapar laga dain yeh samj ja-a ga aur dobara woh harkat nahi karay ga"
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Agree with you. It's hard to deal with sensitive ppl.
You have to be very careful with your words and action.
Sensitive ppl note everything.
Here I will share it one more time just for you:
One parent in Pakistan told the teacher , " mera bacha bohat samjhdar aur hassas hay, agar iss ko koi baat samjhana ho to iss key brabar walay bachay key thapar laga dain yeh samj ja-a ga aur dobara woh harkat nahi karay ga"
Kaheen wo barabar wala bachcha bechara Mirch to naheen tha? lol
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heera dude what you doing in sensitive ppl thread ??
I aint ever sitting next to a sensitive soul .. getting slapped for nothing ! 
Oh yes I find it very easy to handle them, hmmmmm
but for some reason they don’t like the way i handle them. makes me think…
Just keep talk simple and short with them. 
I think that sensitive is a subjective word. You might find a particular person to be to over-sensitive and someone else may find her/him to be reasonably sensitive. You might be sensitive about an issue that another person could be very relaxed about. You may be more sensitive some days and less sensitive on other days. As individuals we all can be more sensitive about certain issues. And that makes us who we are.
It's always good to be careful about your words. It's highly urged in Islam for us to mind our tongues because since we're all built differently, it's hard to tell what words could potentially hurt another person. So, keeping that in mind it's best to be careful. Often times parents tend to assume that their words are either NOT hurting their children or that their words SHOULD NOT hurt their children.....but even one's own kids have varying degrees of emotional sensitivity.
I've found that even the most laid back person can be sensitive about some things. I'm more sensitive than my sister.....where as she's more laid back. But there are certain issues I cannot joke around with her about because she's very touchy about them. And she has a right to her preference. So, I tend to avoid joking about issues she's sensitive about. I've seen people that are sooooo laidback about a lot of things but can't handle a sarcastic remark.
I've met some people that don't exercise any caution in dealing with others. In otherwords, they don't think twice about making fun of others and criticizing. They show a strong lack of sensitivity toward people................**BUT **unfortunately they CAN"T handle the same treatment when they are on the RECEIVING END of their own bitter medicine. Such people KNOW how to DISH IT OUT........BUT THEY CAN"T TAKE IT THEMSELVES.
Some individuals are more hypersensitive because they had a harsh and critical upbribging and because of this they are more sensitive to crtitcism from peers as well. And since we don't know what kind of an upbringing one has had, it's better to exercise caution.
Overall, I would say that if this person that you find to be over-sensitive is getting on your nerves, then just maintain a distance from them. And if you can't do that, then sit down and have a civil discussion on your intentions behind your remarks/actions so that they understand you're not out to "get them." But keep in mind, there is a degree of sensitivity in most people......even the really laid-back amongst us......and since we're not always aware of what that sensitivity could be about, then we should be careful with what we say.
^And if you notice that certain tones (sarcasm) or issues bother someone.......then out of courtesy, just don't go there and things are less likely to get messy. Or in the even that their sensitivity is causing their personality to be incompatible with yours, then find other company.
Just keep talk simple and short with them. :)
are you saying we should not talk to girls??
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^ lol PM.
But yeah, I can't stand over sensitive people, they are a nuisance to be around with.
what will you do if your close friend happens to be a sensitive person?
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sensitive people are easily hurt but they are sensitive not because they take everything to heart but because they care.It just takes time to recover and they just need that time
Waterfall,
Regardless of how sensitive a person is, you're NOT going to solve the problem unless you sit down and talk with her about the misunderstandings between the two of you. This should NOT be done on the phone. It should NOT be done through email or letter. It needs to be done privately and face to face. If you and this friend of yours value the relationship you both have, then you need to talk it out with her because you know her better than we do.
As I said earlier, I believe everyone is sensitive about various things. I have seen the most blunt **and **seemingly carefree/laidback/straightforward people read waaaaay too much into other people's comments and become touchy or **"sensitive" **themselves. And sensitivity can be shown in various away (cold shoulder, crying, anger, snapping back, sarcasm, avoidance, shouting, etc).
It seems to me that you really care about this friend of yours or you wouldn't have started a thread on how to deal with her. If she's touchy about certain subjects, then it's best to avoid them. BUT if you feel that your friend has lately been taking your comments way too seriously and reading way too in them.....and if you feel she's putting words in your mouth......and if you feel she's accusing you of hurting her on purpose.........then the only way to sort things out is to have a** face to face civil discussion with her**.
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Well... I agree that being *sensitive *leaves a lot of room for subjectivity. However I do believe that some degree of sensitivtiy is a must to maintain some dignity. Personally, I'd never stand for tolerating insult in front of others. There has to be limits on everything.
On a personal note, I have observed that people who are very sensitive generally have high IQ and EQ (emotional quotient).
However, I do think that people find cry babies quite irritating.
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There are different levels of sensitivity and any one on either extreme of the sensitivity scale (really sensitive to really insensitive) is DIFFICULT to deal with.
The sensitive people tend to take offense at every little conscious and unconscious gesture, word, omission and tone.
The insensitive people tend to annoy or hurt even normal sensitivity people by being grossly unaware of how their gesture, word, omission thereof and tone can be perceived.
But thats the thing - if you're a 'people person' you tend to be able to handle these extremes better.
If you're not, you tend to handle people on your own 'sensitivity wavelength' well, but not those who are alot more sensitive/insensitive than you.
Oh no! 
I need to open a thread about insensitive people.
Ahahahah - Straight Up: I think it’ll be a can of worms!!! 
Hehehhehe
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A sensitive man is a wuss, I would rather stay away from that breed.
A sensitive woman is a drama queen, and again I would rather stay away from that breed.
People need to stop hiding behind the safety of so-called sensitive nature and face the reality. Life isnt easy for anyone, the sensitive ones need to toughen up or go hide in the closet.