Sending your parents to a care home

NomiCA · January 1, 2012, 8:45am

Re: Sending your parents to a care home

It is. If a man wants to buck up, he can. They’re HIS parents. Just like mine are MINE. I would never marry anyone who I felt couldn’t be there for me or mine if and when I needed them. If I don’t care for them, who will? If he doesn’t understand his responsibilities…why is he married?

**so you think that kind of behavior is spotable before getting married?? you seriously think that someone would let you know about it beforehand??..and you think that those guys knew beforehand that their wives would make them kick out their parents and they still married those women??
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The thing is…its not necessary to be unjust to one to be just to another. I despise this thinking that in order to be good to my wife, I have to be unfair to my mother or vice versa. Why? Who says?

**You are talking how things should be… i am talking about how things are in real… people do end up in situations where they are forced to make a choice…
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