Self Absorbed

[sweefs]

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ahhh man, its ok.. exam time brings the worst out of everyone sometimes.

don’t wish bad on her cuz it’s the worst thing you can do, wishing bad on someone, just focus on yourself and forget it.. friends like that won’t matter in the long run

[Shak]

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@sweet.i.f

ahhh man, its ok.. exam time brings the worst out of everyone sometimes.

don’t wish bad on her cuz it’s the worst thing you can do, wishing bad on someone, just focus on yourself and forget it.. friends like that won’t matter in the long run

Also never listen to sweetif’s advice. Trust me on this

[Hulahoop_Queen]

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I am sorry but this is a really small thing to be upset over. I mean, what about all those times she did let you stay over?

I know that maybe she told you very last minute and that may have created a frustrating situation for you, but it is a v small thing. You should definitely forgive her for this.

I totally believe in the whole friend in need, friend indeed quote but at the same time, you can't expect them to ALWAYS be there for you. Sometimes they need to do their own things and it is not 'self-absorbed', it's ok to do things for yourself and whatever you want to make your own self happy.

[pakiQueen]

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@inspiron

Probably. The amount of times i have been there for her and she cant let me sleep in her appartment one night a week and i leave first thing in the morn. If she said no from the outset fine but she changed her mind last minute and left me stuck basically and her stupid ‘i feel bad texts’ really annoy me. I am very dissappointed

Awww…your friend was so mean. Come stay with me Inspiron. I will make you french toast and eggs

[Deeba1234]

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She should have just admitted she wanted to spend time with that guy..

[stoppit]

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Girls generally suck. Dun be friends with them.

[goddamniamsoawesome]

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I don't think you ought to be upset about her telling you the evening before that she can't host you, Similarly if she can't hang out with you after class because she wanted to hang with some guy she likes.

You can be upset that she is not being upfront about it.

Regardless the level of your anger seems a bit overboard.

QFT

The level of anger is not proportional to what happened.

[inspiron]

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She is being super duper nice to me, like emailing me past paper questions and asking me if I am ok and if i will be able to make it to a study session tomorrow evening.

I told her I wont - she said 'maybe book a hotel room?'

What???? If she cares so much dont suggest a hotel room.

She has been my friend since day 1, I thought we were like sisters, I lived at her family home for 2 weeks for her sisters wedding along with other friends and spent sleepless nights helping her.

Ive bailed her out of very tough situations

Im so annoyed grr

[Midnight_express_91]

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just dump her revision textbooks and past papers in the river. lol. But in all seriousness, when people see that you dont follow a crowd (not saying you do - just the principle behind it) ur much more likely to get attention. Thats todays lesson young Xiaolin. Dismissed

[Sara516]

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well is the friendship worth salvaging then? if so, then talk to her about it.

[inspiron]

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Im like a weirdo...like seriously I dont follow crowds.

You know Jess from New Girl, that is actually me.

ANYWAY im going to spit on and burn those past papers...after reading them

[inspiron]

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Nope the friendship is not worth salvaging

[Midnight_express_91]

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Im like a weirdo...like seriously I dont follow crowds.

You know Jess from New Girl, that is actually me.

ANYWAY im going to spit on and burn those past papers...after reading them

Why is that wierd?? i respect people who dont follow crowds. Im the same :). Like one day ill hang out with one group then the next day with another. Non cliquey

[inspiron]

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^ I wrote it wrong, they are infact mutually exclusive

[Midnight_express_91]

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ohhh ok. No problemo :). Hope you get through it. People come and go all the time in your life. The one constant that remains in life is YOU. So enjoy :)

[Southie]

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OK - you are losing focus again%$@#

Shoo away all negative thougts and just razorsharp focus on your books. (And yes, do read the past papers she sent)

That reminds me - I will also do something constructive and get ready for the week.

[Confucius]

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ok then i discovered that Tina was at a revision session that evening with some guy who she likes at the library and our uni is small word gets around, i found out they went out for dinner. If she is SO anxious why go out on dates.....

The guy was over at her place Inspi.... I knows it

[CM]

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Out of all of this the most relevant piece of information is that some guy got lucky. Good for him.

[Nisha25]

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@BellaShabba

I had a friend like that when i lived out for uni crap thing is we lived in the same flat but she was always holed up with her bf.. Anyway wen he dumped her fake arse she had no friends left she would always cancel plans with me and my best mate who was also our flat mate. And come up with crappy excuses. Just dnt rely on her. Focus on ur exams and just let her recover from her ‘feeling anxious’ wat a weird excuse though lol x

then i wonder why almost all of my female friends end up not being good serious friends. most all are guy friends with me but it’s true some women would in a heartbeat drop their female friend for a guy any day or change themselves completely for him. It’s incredible but just in case she is sucked in by a jerk guy then forget it she’ll be just like how you described it. for most men it’s “bros before hoes”(what a word for women )