Segregation at Parties

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Re: Segregation at Parties

@rosedreams

ive been to a few segregated weddings. some had a parda, other didnt. the ones without parda, the ladies just wore their burqa.

at one wedding that was not segregated. there was a doctor’s family, his wife does burqa plus niqab.. she is a doctor too. my dad was pissed cuz the wife wasnt eating at all and the man was eating away heartily. wife was just lifting her veil and taking a few bites then finally stopped as i think she saw ppl were looking at her. she was the only niqabi in the wedding. my dad was annoyed as he coudlnt understand why such an educated couple cannot compromise, and why the lady couldnt just remove her niqab. (that was my dad’s personal opinion as he thought she looked ridiculous eating that way)

I know how some hijabi families who due to some unavoidable reasons have to attend such weddings do.I have been to some such weddings and we normaly leave withn 15minutes and have some good dinner at some good place.(i always look for resturants where seperation can be made or choose the side table).

The only reason for such comments is that some hijabi families try to make both ends meet , doing hijab in non segregated events. what other hijabis do is they just dont attend such weddings, now our relatives whie inviting us tell us that the event will be non segregated/ or they will make segregation for ladies. In that case i endup standing out side the main hall with my friends and my begums enjoys in the darba(thats what we call the small seperation)

Just thought to tell the other side of the story.