nah......never seen death.......
my daadi died when my dad was 7 yrs......other than tht alhumdullilah.....all my close relatives r with me.....& safe n sound......
can't even begin to imagine how it wud be without them.......
okay..
so why is everyone talking about death and funeral these days?
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I hear that when you die the soul exits from your feet to your mouth and out.
So you start losing movement from your feet onwards when you die.
I was remembering Death yesterday and I remember seeing my Grandfather on his deathbed when I was like 13 years old.
He was in the middle of the room and everyone was reading the Quran around him. We had to keep the door slightly open, not sure why?
No one was sitting to his right, it was Muharram and was very hot. He was breathing very fast and sure enough he died. It was scary like hell.
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like.. no offence to you dude...but i really...i mean...i know everyone has to die one day...but talking about how people die...and their last reaction is pretty disturbing...
like.. no offence to you dude...but i really...i mean...i know everyone has to die one day...but talking about how people die...and their last reaction is pretty disturbing...
ya u r right diya but the thing is dat by talking abt death n its last reaction u may remember ur's one n u may do things according 2 law n shariah
I saw a murder, suicide and an accident infront of my eyes and I can't seem to forget them. No it did't effect me at all in my daily life but I sure thank Allah (s.w.t) for every breath every minute I have.
Diya: talking about death brings one person more close to Allah (s.w.t). Realizing and having a fear of death keeps you away from the bad deeds and make u realize that one day you have to return back to HIM and have to be accountant for everthing that you have done in your life. I don't mind talking about death at all...its part of life.
I didnt' and i don't even watn to be in that situation.
I heard it from some where that every muslim has to give bath to 2.5 bodies.
2 bodies on your own and half means help out other people while they are giving bath. Just the thought of it gives me scary nightmares....
As far as i know Soul will be taken from back of your neck. I remember reading something on it where Prophet Muhammad PBUH asked Allah to make it less painful.
I worked my way through college as an orderly in a hospital. I saw lots of people die. The most horrible was a man named Gaylord G. (can't use the whole name here). Gaylord had Lung Cancer, and the cancer had metastastisized to his brain. He had a huge growth coming out of his head. The minute you walked into his room, you could smell the cancer coming up out of his lungs. Once you have smelled this you can never mistake it again.
During his last days he developed a type of breathing pattern called Cheyne-Stoking. This is where you take a few breaths, then completely stop, then suddenly resume. This is frequently a symptom that immediately precedes death. I had gotten to know this man well, so the family paid extra, and asked that I stayed past my normal shift and stayed only with him that night. The Cheyne-Stoking is the most is the most nerve wracking thing you have ever experienced. You literally think every breath is his last, and then breathing can restart nearly a minute later. Absolutely horrible. By dawn he actually took his final breath, and never resumed. It was an absolute blessing when he finally died.
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i dont think i would remember anything when i am dying…like com’onn i am not gonna be thinking about other peoples reactions…and how…
ok i am gonna STOP…
, but i think threads such as these keep reminding that death is eventual – so when the time arrives - its less of a shock.
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