The official definition of secular from the link provided says “without religion”. It does not mention respect or disrespect for the religions.
A secular system is not against mutual respect for different religions on personal basis as a part of freedom of expression. However a secular system does not use religion as the basis of governance. **The governance has to be without the interference of religion, not that your personal life has to be without religion in a secular system. **
If you mean that I said that you must have respect for religions to make them a part of governance, you are the one who didn’t understand my argument. When I say respect for religions in a secular society, I mean freedom of an individual to follow any religion in his personal life!
You are the one who is mixing up the respect for personal religion means bringing the religion in governance. While I clearly mean the respect for religion as personal right to follow religion without bringing it in governance.