Re: secret second marriage
It is because not only does it imply that he had an extramarital affair he actually went ahead and made it official. I may be able to understand secret affairs as this is human nature and believe it or not we are polygamous by nature. Everyone slips here and there! This holds true for both men and women. I will not understand his secret 2nd marriage because that would mean he did not respect me as a partner to confront me about our issues. It would mean he gave our relationship no chance at all and instead of telling me before going ahead with the “secret” marriage, he kept me around as his backup plan. No one likes that! It’s too big of an insult to get over.