Re: secret second marriage
The only case I’ve heard of in our community about someone entering a secret second marriage was a younger guy who’s only a couple of years old than me. Before beginning uni, he married a girl from back home at the behest of his parents (apparently, his parents are close friends with the girl’s parents and gave their word 
). However, he moved out and moved to Leeds where he was attending uni a couple of days after the wedding. He went about uni and his life as if nothing had happened and has not seen the wife since (the poor girl lives with his parents). Apparently, he got “married” (though not in a civil marriage) a couple of years ago and is happily living with his wife as if the entire episode with his first marriage never happened.
To some extent, I could somewhat understand a younger guy doing something like that because of immaturity, inexperience, stupidity and the like but an older 60+ man? 