Re: secret second marriage
^ I don’t. I don’t allocate “blame” according to gender, I blame according to culpability, but culpability is determined through the lens of one’s own experience. And more than that, who am I to blame? I have an opinion and I state it.
But what I’ve noticed of late is that even when an even-handed response is provided - no one focusses on those responses, it’s the few outliers that are held up as the standard. And agree or disagree with the outliers, the outliers are responding based on the lens of their own experiences.
Anyhow, I’ve stated my own opinion and I’m not looking for approval of my opinion, since its my own. I think I’ve beaten this topic to death - so the less said by me, the better.
Carry on.