secret second marriage

[Theorist]

Re: secret second marriage

@gudiaali

Polygamy causes too much hurt but still u cant really advocate to make something illlegal or a crime which is alloewed by the religion. There is a hikmat behind every permissible n non permissable thing so how can we with our limited perspective advocate changes to this. And even where poygamy is illegal men over there do satiate thier appetite by keeping extra marital affairs..
I am mysrlf not at all in support of men taking second wife just cuz he gets attracted or fell in love wid her but i cant denounce da rules of islam regarding this either.

Barking up the wrong tree, pal. I am not religious. Something that hurts this bad and breaks families apart should be made illegal. Secret marriages do not resolve issues of extra marital affairs. That’s like saying my chai has too much Cheeni so I will add some namak to make it better. It doesn’t make chai any less sweeter, does it? It renders the chai undrinkable.