secret second marriage

[Theorist]

Re: secret second marriage

@Iconoclast

Yeah I read it theorist, but I could not understand Ur perspective. May be it’s a different way I think or men think.

I mean dont don’t all the things u said also imply, in case of an affair? That is not discussing any problems in marriage, not giving relationship a chance, keeping wife as back up while doing the things with mistress? The only thing I thought different was giving the second woman an official status, which I can understand from an individual wife’s perspective but not in terms of the act itself.

Let me put it in simpler words then: a marriage is harder to break than an affair. An affair is between two people but a marriage involves court. It solidifies commitment. This means individuals entering into a secret marriage know they can’t just walk away from each other without harsher consequences. In essence, they have thought about it long and hard and went through with their plans with no regards for the first partner.

I don’t understand this rampant mentality on GS that if I speak for women I must be against men. NO! I agree that it would hurt men just as much if not more. You may disagree but I actually think infidelity hurts men more because nothing else could hurt a man’s ego/manhood like knowing he couldn’t satisfy his wife.