You can try to be positive and*** not think deep***, ALLAH controls you thats true, but HE has given us the ability to make decisions, use it wisely.
how can one not think deep if his/her life is in problems?? that wud be the only think going on in his/her mind...itz easy said than done...if u have some problem in your life, u stop thinking about it??how could u find an escape?
how can one not think deep if his/her life is in problems??
Thinking deep means you are not finding any solution, otherwise thinking rationally will itself give u many hints and you dont need to go further into deep thinking which may not only confuse you, but exhaust you, saturate your mind and eventually lead to depression.
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that wud be the only think going on in his/her mind...itz easy said than done...if u have some problem in your life, u stop thinking about it??how could u find an escape?
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Escape is when you run away from something, its better to confront a problem and make a decision rather than hide through escapes.
Re: Secret Lives
^ Indeed.
It's called LIFE!!!!
As long as we are living we will have problems & tensions in our lives some times few and sometimes many . Depression can be the result of such things happening in our lives. It's the circle of life . So as long as there is life there would be problems , tensions , sadness and happiness too . Thats why this section is called LIFE & RELATIONSHIPS.
Intead of lecturing me about LIFE, why dont you two go ahead and take out "Kinzz" and "neha55511" from depression, as its because of them i gave that statement.
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we didn’t start with out a reason , you were the one complaining about what people post in life1.
I don’t have a magic wand nor I am a psychiatrist that I take them out from depression. They just said that they are depressed they didn’t say why they are depressed !!! they are not asking for help or suggestions over here. They just answered to a thread that’s it. If they post any thread and ask for advise then me and including many people here on GS are genuinely willing to give best possible advise.
Read the posts in this thread again mr.sarge candy and see who deviated from the topic!
I am in no mood for a useless bahas (argument) . Have a nice day and let other people have a nice day too.
Now the above being said I am off on this discussion with you 
Re: Secret Lives
SargeCandy speaks the truth.
AGREED!!!
Intead of lecturing me about LIFE, why dont you two go ahead and take out "Kinzz" and "neha55511" from depression, as its because of them i gave that statement.
Oh calm down and stop going on with yourself!!!!
i also dont have magic wand and neither am i a psychiatrist, but i really felt bad that members here are openly telling they are in depression and even though im not a doctor even but depression is very dangerous.
You may not be familiar with helping voluntarily, but i find it useful. Since you cant help, its better to lay-off, good.
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Neha where are you?
Oh calm down and stop going on with yourself!!!!
Kia Abdul-Qadir Jilani (r) aise bolay ge? Sarge kia ghalat keh rha h?? :p
ps: Sarge, yar don't take everything said here seriously, people say they are in depression yet they do not know what it means...
Kia Abdul-Qadir Jilani (r) aise bolay ge? Sarge kia ghalat keh rha h?? :p
:) It was said in jest..... as is the tone of the majority of posts in this thread. I totally agree with Sarge on the way he has explained on how to handle a problem / depression BUT when something is said in a light hearted manner, treat it as such, rather than going on and on at that person!!! Sarge most definitely needs to take a "chill pill" once in a while.... no offence Sarge... :)
ps: Sarge, yar don't take everything said here seriously, people say they are in depression yet they do not know what it means...
my point EXACTLY!!! :) :)
Kia Abdul-Qadir Jilani (r) aise bolay ge? Sarge kia ghalat keh rha h?? :p
ps: Sarge, yar don't take everything said here seriously, *people say they are in depression yet they do not know what it means... *
There isn't just one kind of depression. Depression has many subcategories and forms and depends how deep you are in depression. I fell into depression a lot of times, I know what it feels like. You can't think straight, if you could, you wouldn't be in depression. Depression takes away your ability to function so telling someone who is suffering from depression to find a solution does more damage. For me, best way to avoid it is to work out, read, meditate(relax), or seek medical help.
Re: Secret Lives
I secretly go into dreams of young guppans.
They too venture into my dreams sometimes, wo bhi nangey paaoon 
hi kinzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz..am hereee:cb:…ye humara depression tou bara famous ho gyaaaaaaa… i have been reading the whole thread 
Re: Secret Lives
I have TB and a kid, Only my doc knows abt tb and my x and her frndz/ family know abt the kid. no one knows me here so i can share it on this forum.
Ufff shukar hai u said “paoon” my thinking is so dirty…
Re: Secret Lives
Never needed to have a secret life. Anything "supposedly bad" I've ever done, I've always told my mom...and never gotten in trouble for it.
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in my secret life am a biker with a .22semi automatic:chai:
a .22, yeah better keep it secret or other bikers will laugh at you 