Secret Lives

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Do you have a secret life that others don’t have a clue of?

I am talking about stuff like: strip clubs, secret societies, belief system, supporting extreme radicals, substance abuse, secret boyfriends/girlfriends, secret employment, occultism, drug dealing, racist online forums (stormfront), etc..

Basically, is there something you do that you would never want your family to find out about?

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Well, I'm Asha'ri and no one knows this in my family except my husband.

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Even if someone has a secret life I doubt if he/she will share anything about it on a public forum.

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More so, do u have an alter ego? This concept scares me:bummer:

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if you dont mind me asking...what is asha'ri?

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ashwariya rai ??? :konfused:

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^LMAO!

Google it..

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well i use GS and i dun want any of my family members to know abt my account bcoz i can share my problems here that i kant with anyone else:D...

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Falafel

It’s the aqeedah of Imam Abu Hassan al-Asha’ri … it’s about how one understands the existence of Allah(SWT).

You can read about it here: http://alghazzali.org/resources/articles/ashariAqeedah.pdf

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Aap Star Plus ko off ker ke books waghaira read kia karo. LOL

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Oh yeah....in my teens I used to have an eating disorder but one person found out and told everyone else.

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I'm nearly an atheist. I don't want to be and I try to pray and read about different things to help me but nothing helps. Only 2 people (my best friend and future hubby) know about it to its full extent while a few other friends just got the the other version of the story about how i'm "struggling with religion". I've thought like this since I was 17-ish and I remember thinking all my life that atheists were the dumbest people on the planet because how can one think there's nothing out there or that we are here because of a random nuclear reaction?

As for religion and Islam, I think religion was a matter of politics/societies/culture/way of life and a few exaggerated stories put together about things like miracles happening and such. And how religion was created by man to deal with day-to-day problems because we humans need something to turn to.

I can't tell my parents because they'd be heart broken. My parents are kinda' religious people but still very open minded and my younger brother is even a haafiz. They gave up on asking me to pray a long time ago and sometimes ask whether I still am a Muslim or not.

This secret literally depresses me every single day. The 2 people that know say since I'm nearly 19, there's still time to help me but deep down I know i've went too far.

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i used to be a self abuser (not a lot of people knew about it and my addiction towards it) around 6 yrs back (bad phase) but now Mashallah im sane n abuse other people :D

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I have drug problems!

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Can you two elaborate on what you mean if it's not too personal?

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I'm the princess of lala land.. sshh don't tell.

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Umm well...im so depress but everyone around me thinks im sooo happpy cos i always put a fake smile on my face :(

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I run my own business, and have a social life which my extended family (in-laws) in Pakistan ain't got a clue about! They also do not realise I have a degree and just think I'm thick like their extended family who live in the UK.

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awww same is the case with me:bummer:

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Members having problems, tensions and depressions is very common on this forum.