Secret Lives

Lifestyle Relationships
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^Only on forum? what about people around us in real life?

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As long as we are living we will have problems & tensions in our lives some times few and sometimes many . Depression can be the result of such things happening in our lives. It's the circle of life . So as long as there is life there would be problems , tensions , sadness and happiness too . Thats why this section is called LIFE & RELATIONSHIPS.

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amigo, not a problem anymore. I supply it everytime, on time

contact me right now.

PS: oops...did I just blew the cover of my secret life? :(

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I dream a lot day and night but nobody knows what I dream about. :bummer:

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It's called LIFE!!!!

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I’m addicted to fizzy drinks :bummer:

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i dont hv breakfast

oh my god.

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^:cb: you made me giggle loudly at work

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:fatee:

lets meet up at 6pm in Quetta forum, You better have the goods :asa:*

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well i am sane, i have alot of thinking in my head which no one knws, i get upset if things go wrong / or esp if someone wants to creat a fight or something/argument but no one realises that i am.

Anyways, Hareem ..if you are secretly Ashar'i then i dont see the secret in it to hide it .. yes i knw there are difference of aqeeda init etc ..but figh is still the same and even then the differences are minute as you knw...

and someone said that they ve gone too far ..that they are nearly an atheist .. well thats the beauty of islam...that if one becomes murtad ..i.e. confessing to nearly an atheist .. or even fell out of the folds of Islam.. He/she CAN still COME BACK and ask for forgiveness and be/try to become a propper muslim once again keeping in mind that they dont lose faith again..Good Luck and i think you should esp if your bro is a haafiz / and if you need anything i mean anything help or need understanding in terms of Islam Insha Allah i will be very happy to help. :)

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I know ....most people don't even know what an Ashari is, but I don't like telling those who know to avoid any arguments unless I'm talking to an Ashari.

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actually GS is an escape for most members from such tensions and depressions.

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the depression/tension threads out-number the happiness threads, take a look yourself. Life and relationships are also abt happiness, but here all is filled with tension and depression.

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yes I am raising a child in a virtual world

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^LOL.

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daroo uss din sai jub cable break down ho jayee :)

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i want to fly, fly too high to be caught.... i want to run., i want to run away from the people who know me...... sometimes i really want to be noone... may be thats why i,ve joined this forum.....i guess i m an escapist, a free spirit....

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1) i plan & imagine everything before, and people think it's my luck ... yeh right !

2) i have separate business which no one have clue off, not even my dad/mom....but uncle sam knows

3) i have level-1 security clearance..

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Yeah, I'm a lead guitarist in a rock band called DeathWing. Don't be telling people now. Also, I wear a wig over my purple hair.

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I have not one but many secret lives, some present, some in the past..

the price you pay is harsh because you have to keep things compartmentalized
and now with technology and social web, things are overlapping more and more
which creates its own set of challenges.

its nothing like supporting extremists, or drugs or strippers, or affairs.

having multiple lives and maintaining them is possible if you

all i can say is if I fill a room with different people from different time periods, different groups and different places, and they talk about me, they will feel they are talking about a different person.

it is a lonely existence in many ways because a 100% of who you are is only known to you, I mean that is the case with all, but others may know 90% or 80% of who you are. I have to admit, that no one is even remotely close to that number..

sometimes you keep aspects of your life hidden from others because you dont want to hurt them. lets say secret societies for instance, if one is a member while the parents have strong reservations about it, well, maybe its best that they not know.

Or maybe due to your skillsets, cultutal and language understanding you have been tapped to do off and on work and family is not in agreement because they think its dangerous, but you feel strongly about it, why tell them?

or that one special summer with a special someone, where both of you knew it was only a summer thing on the sun drenched shores of the mediterranean, you were young, you had a great time, it would always be a cherished memory, but cant be shared with anyone for cultural religious or emotional reasons then or now.

or while you were a model student leader running student govt and campus leadership events, you were doing ecstacy at raves during the weekends 2 states away just to maintain a distance..you know

okay all of the above was just BS :) gotcha...

or did I...