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yeah i will be and i am very very careful about who i give my number to now its scary!
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I also had a fair share of secret admirers back in school...
when I always end up with an empty tiffon without knowing who it was :)
Thanks.
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lol
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The Quran also doesn't tell you HOW to pray... it just tells u to do so...
Islam is a way of life... if someone is interested in someone, then he/she should convey that interest in the proper manner... and as muslims, our "interest" should = marriage. there is nothing b4 or after it. having said that, most of these notions are flirtacious in nature and dont materialise to marriage anyway, so that is what makes them unislamic, as they may lead to sin (i.e. relationships outside the marriage).
Wassalam
Islam isn't that evil a religion, don't make it seem as if its against all notions of love and is out there to restrict your options and curb our freedoms.
If its not flirtatious and the person is indeed interested then I don't think there is any harm in either talking it further (of course to something constructive, that is marriage) or gracefully declining the proposal (whether its for friendship, marriage or mere relationship).
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I also had a fair share of secret admirers back in school...
when I always end up with an empty tiffon without knowing who it was :)
Thanks.
:D
I used to be a secret admirer of few students in our university. It was because they were very good in studies+games+religious practice+manners. (masha'Allah)
p.s. they were men and admiration was only in terms of inspiration
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Well , in case of a Buff, babe magnet like me , who is built like a brick ****hhouse , they all prefer to do it openly.
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you know pheonix when i was in paki a MARRIED guy from GS somehow got my WARID number and he is like hello u are aisha choudhry etc etc and he knew sooo much about me and i was like who the hell are you etc etc and he is like dont get the wrong impression i am MARRIED but just wanted to say i like you so can we be friends and i am like HELL NO! and then when i came to dubai i was like oh thank god he wouldnt know my dubai number and i got a message from some dubai number and i was like hello who is this and he said wahi SHADI SHUDA admi who offered friendship and i was like how the heck did u get my dubai number and he is like usi tarah jaisay WARID wala liya tha, i dunno how but many people can easily get my number which is very scary for me!!
It might have been one of the buddhas on this forum, just getting a good laugh out of it all.
Or a sicko.
How would people get your phone number? Did you post it here?
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Given that I'm a married woman, hell yes I do.
Congratulation on your marriage!
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Well , in case of a Buff, babe magnet like me , who is built like a brick ****hhouse , they all prefer to do it openly.
lmao sum1z pretty sure of themself
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Congratulation on your marriage!
Thanks! :)
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Islam isn't that evil a religion, don't make it seem as if its against all notions of love and is out there to restrict your options and curb our freedoms. If its not flirtatious and the person is indeed interested then I don't think there is any harm in either talking it further (of course to something constructive, that is marriage) or gracefully declining the proposal (whether its for friendship, marriage or mere relationship).
I never said that Islam is against expressing our feelings, I just said that those feelings have to be conveyed in a proper manner (and by proper I mean Islamic).
If a guy is interested in a girl and really wants to send her flowers, then he should get his Mum/ sister to give them to her.... doing it personally is not allowed.
Can you find that Prophet SAW did such a thing, anyone from Ahlul Bayt, his Sahaba (r.a), anyone from the taibeens? do any of the 4 major Imams allow for such things (or did anyone do this themselves) ? i think u will find the answer to be now. Theses are the ppl that us Muslims should be imitating as they are indeed the rightly guided... true giving gifts does increase the love in someone's heart, but b4 any action, we should stop an dthink if this is what Allah SWT approves of.
The point here is: if there is a chance that something might lead to sinning ( major or minor), one should avoid it completely... and inshallah that is better for us. Prevention is better then Cure right?
Wassalam
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She was freaked out bro :p
Did you also send her your pic? :D
hahahahahaha
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it wasn;t me lol
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hez stalker, lol don't talk to him
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I never said that Islam is against expressing our feelings, I just said that those feelings have to be conveyed in a proper manner (and by proper I mean Islamic).
If a guy is interested in a girl and really wants to send her flowers, then he should get his Mum/ sister to give them to her.... doing it personally is not allowed.
Can you find that Prophet SAW did such a thing, anyone from Ahlul Bayt, his Sahaba (r.a), anyone from the taibeens? do any of the 4 major Imams allow for such things (or did anyone do this themselves) ? i think u will find the answer to be now. Theses are the ppl that us Muslims should be imitating as they are indeed the rightly guided... true giving gifts does increase the love in someone's heart, but b4 any action, we should stop an dthink if this is what Allah SWT approves of.
The point here is: if there is a chance that something might lead to sinning ( major or minor), one should avoid it completely... and inshallah that is better for us. Prevention is better then Cure right?
Wassalam
They didn't have flowers growing in the middle of a desert.
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hello. i have no secret admirer. i am ugly. :(
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yeah i wont
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Pheeny, can you blame the guy? You're such a hawtie! Anyway, I don't understand the whole anonymous business, people should take the opportunity to tell someone how they feel, talk about missed opportunities. If it was me and I was single, I wouldn't just send you flowers, I'd show up with flowers and candy, demand that you ate said candy, then chase you around while you screamed in a very high pitched voice "don't chase me, I'm full of chocolates"
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Lol @aahmed that made me laugh so much buddy…me and candies are great friends…plus the funniest thing is that I would most likely say something as random as that too…!
Well I never get ‘normal’ admirers…I always get stalkers, and wierdos 