Re: second-wife
well pcg, im sure its gonna be more than lust. The good wife should compromise and not become confrotational, that will only lead to her divorce.
If it was more than lust, that's one thing. If there is war conditions out there, then fine. If she's needy and has nowhere to go and we can't employ her, and society wont employ her, because of harsh conditions or tyrannical rule or whatever, then fine.
Such conditions aren't common today. At least not where you and I live.
Haan, if you are in an African tribe, then its different social dynamics. Things change when you are starving.
And frankly, I dont see how divorce is bad in this kind of a situation.
why is relationship based on lust the most irreligous of unions??
Read the Quran.