Re: Second wife =home wrecker always?
Most wouldn’t do a DNA test…but, it is what it is.
By issues, Women who sleep with more than one man, for long periods do develop vaginal issues. And not speaking of STD’s either…actual health related issues.
I enjoy cheesecake, but if I eat daily I’ll blow up like a balloon…doesn’t make it right lol.
I will say plainly…I would
Judge a women, as I do now, for being with more than one man at a time. Wrong is wrong. Women already are losing their values…feminism my foot. I don’t want to be treated equally…I want to be treated better than a man…and the only way he can do that is if I let him be a man. Having a second wife in my house? No way.
But, it’s allowed. There are rules for women and men for many reasons…and they are there to protect us…men and women. However, unless the second wife intentionally caused problems between the first wife and husband or between themselves..it should be fine AND the husband did right by both of them. In a perfect world…this would be. But, people have opinions and that’s that. Again, she’s not a home wrecker…and the first wife should agree and if she does, then she doesn’t need to cause issues either.
I can see how a plural marriage could strengthen a person, teaches them to not be jealous, envious, how to accommodate and be a family. If one wife has to run an errand the other can help with kids. If one wife is cooking the other can clean. Etc. There will be moments of jealousy, resentment etc between them. But, lay out the rules of what is expected beforehand and adhere to them.
We have laws for a reason…we should make laws in our home to keep peace and harmony as well.
Anyway…that’s my two cents.