In my boys group there are more girls who are secretly dating two guys and I frequently see these young men bawling over being cheated on. When I was in Pak an industrialist friend of mine was an extreme playboy, they are worth in hundreds of millions and he had been with scores of women many married a few of these women were associating with several males. This is not a judgemental society and people dont care how many men or women a girl is with. My boys best friend is a bi and absolutely no one judges her. When I was in Pak almost every wall had ads of mardaana kamzoori, sande ka teil, rohani ilaj etc so honestly looking at the physiological stats if an average guy can keep one woman happy he is doing good. Polygamy comes from the mind set of women as possessions and inferior. A man with plural marriages here would be a spectacle also. The VP of my corp is a single woman, we have many females at our corp who are senior managers. One of my renter is a single mom PM making 120k/yr…NO!! marriage to a misogynist is not a gift to a woman, none of the women I know would consider a misogynist. If a woman chose to marry a misogynist he should be thanking the desi culture as without it many wouldn’t have a wife.
In most cases where the desi women are standing up against put downs and emotional and psychological abuses they are told hey look they are getting influenced by the bad western values. A good desi girl takes chit quietly and thanks her demi god after every single niwala.