Second Marriage?

[Hmmna]

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@lahoretolondon

I am not twenty three, I can’t tell you my exact age so let’s assume its in-between 27-31, I have great self control, but everyman grows weak when your alone for 6 months, living in small apartment, freezing your arse off outside, not very fun in Moscow.

U are extremely immature for someone of 27-31. I have seen many people make long distance work or on the other hand try to find work where they will have their spouse with them. You can’t get out of this guilt free. And I think you will lose the respect of your son who wud b able to understand exactly whats going on. I thought he was a baby.

Also if your wife can keep her desires under control in a cold uk winter, shudnt u do the same?
what makes u so weak?

[STA]

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@Decent_6Chora

Ghalti sai mistake ho gaee ho ge

[Hmmna]

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@PyariCgudia

I’m 29 and never had sexual intercourse. Beat that, punk.

Its the attitude of boys will b boys, that makes these men do everything with impunity. For a woman it’s a norm in our culture, for men it’s some sort of an achievement.

[Ashy2010]

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Sometimes when people get good things in life easily, they start taking them for granted. You got a good wife easily and without even asking. You are not able to understand her true value.

You also got a son. Please don’t ruin his future.

[ninja_hattori]

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@PyariCgudia

I’m 29 and never had sexual intercourse. Beat that, punk.

if my post is not ok for thread then please delete it but do not ban me coz i dont have any multi…but men dont need foreplay…

[Sehrysh]

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Questions for OP:

According to your own thoughts of right and wrong, what is/are your obligations to your wife and son and what do they deserve?

And based on your perception of what they deserve, are you meeting those needs/wants/rights of theirs?

[PyariCgudia]

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I have one muslim boy (well actually 2) in the program I’m at, and although there have been plenty of temptations on both ends, no one has snuck into anyone’s pants here. We’re all controlling ourselves. In fact the other girl in the program who is pakistani, and two other boys - all are virgins. Well, that’s what I understand of it, but at least while they’ve been here there have been no affairs.

And it’s NOT like we’re not all lonely, believe me we are. But we all make it a point to hang out at least once a week or every two weeks as just friends, and we have fun, and then we go home to our independent houses.

I’ve been on some dates for rishtaa purposes here, and still, no jumping into relationships within 6 months.

And I can tell you, if I had a husband back where I grew up, and I was separated temporarily for a job, I’d be spending my extra time wth him on the phone, and on the internet skyping and such. That way, I wouldn’t be feeling alone.

You know, you could have phone sex or skype sex or something like that with your wife. I know, gross, gross, but just sayin’. It’s a huge trend here with the military families where the husbands are in Iraq and afghanistan for war, and their wives are here at home.

JUST SAYIN’

[lahoretolondon]

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@Deeba1234

How long are u planning on staying in Russia or is it a permanent move (as in 6 months there for the rest of ur life)? Have you thought what would happen if you need to return to the UK, esp as in legal terms wife 2 wouldn’t be official..

I’ve got 5 years on my contract and its bound to be extended, she’s also got workers visa for England and has the ability to apply for immigration (no need for a sponsor, as long as she’s able to find a job,)

[BombShellBabe]

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@lahoretolondon

I’ve got 5 years on my contract and its bound to be extended, she’s also got workers visa for England and has the ability to apply for immigration (no need for a sponsor, as long as she’s able to find a job,)

What is your decision now LahoretoLondon?

[Hmmna]

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@lahoretolondon

I’ve got 5 years on my contract and its bound to be extended, she’s also got workers visa for England and has the ability to apply for immigration (no need for a sponsor, as long as she’s able to find a job,)

So u will b with this woman for 6 mnths and then share your time between her and your wife wen u get back to uk. Really u r extremely selfish

[PyariCgudia]

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@lahoretolondon

I’ve got 5 years on my contract and its bound to be extended, she’s also got workers visa for England and has the ability to apply for immigration (no need for a sponsor, as long as she’s able to find a job,)

Wow you even planned the logistics already.

I am praying for your wife. That woman’s gonna need all the prayers she can get, By the the way you describe her, I’m not sure if she’s gonna be strong enough to live this out. shakes head

Ya Allah, is larki ko bachao.

[redvelvet]

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@Hmmna

So u will b with this woman for 6 mnths and then share your time between her and your wife wen u get back to uk. Really u r extremely selfish

FFS, I’m not selfish, okay? If anything I’m so generous cuz there’s only one of me and I’m allowing two women to share me. And I’ll also be sharing more of my wealth and time too. That’s called generosity…and …and…sacrifice, okay?

^All said in Michael Kelso’s voice.

[PyariCgudia]

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You know it’s bad when even RV is slinging mud at the OP.

[lahoretolondon]

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@redvelvet

FFS, I’m not selfish, okay? If anything I’m so generous cuz there’s only one of me and I’m allowing two women to share me. And I’ll also be sharing more of my wealth and time too. That’s called generosity…and …and…sacrifice, okay?

^All said in Michael Kelso’s voice.

lol. I’ll be responding in a new thread, I’ve made a decision, I don’t want my reply to get buried in here.

[musicmaniac]

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[Krypton]

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you do realize, you’ve cheated on your wife?

what’s left.

your poor wife pretended to be complacent all this time probably hoping that one day you’ll grow up and act like a true husband, little does she know you have other plans.

[Krypton]

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@psyah

First time I read this thread … It didn’t seem like I was reading the words of a bloke. And for a young Brit Pak father he has a remarkable command of the English language.

and because psyah feels this way, it MUST be true.

[redvelvet]

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Okay, so this is off-topic. But has anyone else also noticed that members we’ve had here with “Lahore” in their nicks have been of the controversial variety?

[PyariCgudia]

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You guys can run the IP’s and check if they’re multi’s and such.

[ShahreyarKhan]

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rv u r just over thinking

@redvelvet

Okay, so this is off-topic. But has anyone else also noticed that members we’ve had here with “Lahore” in their nicks have been of the controversial variety?