Re: Second Marriage?
Omg, I wasn’t questioning your knowledge of DNA testing. It’s about the fact of life - availability of DNA testing to a polyandrous couple (do you think a village in rural India would be able to afford a ‘reputable’ DNA clinic?). Men ARE more possessive, and more likely to cheat. Women do have more emotional attachment to one person. Look up oxytocin, look up evolution. Men are hardwired to want more spouses…to reproduce. It’s a biological fact. Which is why Islam allows for MEN to marry multiple times, whereas for a woman it isn’t allowed. It’s scientific. It’s Islamic. Look it up.
He never stated that he was a devout Muslim, but maybe he wanted to go that route. There’s nothing wrong with it. Divorce is allowed in Islam, but more frowned upon than marrying a second wife. I don’t have a problem with your opinion - but offer constructive advice. He’s choosing an option that’s allowed to him by our faith, whether he takes that option or not depends on what his situation is and whether he’s critically viewed his marriage from all aspects before reaching that conclusion (of second marriage).