Second Marriage?

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Re: Second Marriage?

@Hmmna

I know it’s really hard to imagine sharing your husband with another woman, but honestly, it’s doable. =/ My family is friends with a few Arab (Saudi and Bahrain) families and these men have married more than once, and their wives live together…happily

Thats bcuz they have been brainwashed for generations. Why acceptable then?

**PCG - I thought the reason for marrying more than once was bcos of lust…to avoid adultery. =/
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So wen women feel for another man outside their marriage, wat are their options? And again a lot of women are in loveless marriages.

Ok, then i offer a rebuttal of we’ve been brainwashed for generations to believe monogamy is the best solution. Doesn’t make sense, right?

I don’t know if you’re Muslim or not, but I’m using my religious background heavily here. If a woman feels for a man outside of her marriage, she has the option of divorce. In Islam, women aren’t allowed to marry multiple times for simple reasons…who’s the parent of the kid that would be born of those relationships? Sure, DNA testing is great, but it can be forged. Also, men are VERY possessive. We see this in nature, we see this in our daily lives. Women are more emotionally attached to one person, whereas men do wander. I’m not trying to simplfiy this down to like..animal insticts..but it’s true in a lot of cases. Men are slightly higher cheaters.