Second Marriage?

[Hmmna]

Re: Second Marriage?

@S_Punk

Omg, I wasn’t questioning your knowledge of DNA testing. It’s about the fact of life - availability of DNA testing to a polyandrous couple (do you think a village in rural India would be able to afford a ‘reputable’ DNA clinic?). Men ARE more possessive, and more likely to cheat. Women do have more emotional attachment to one person. Look up oxytocin, look up evolution. Men are hardwired to want more spouses…to reproduce. It’s a biological fact. Which is why Islam allows for MEN to marry multiple times, whereas for a woman it isn’t allowed. It’s scientific. It’s Islamic. Look it up.

He never stated that he was a devout Muslim, but maybe he wanted to go that route. There’s nothing wrong with it. Divorce is allowed in Islam, but more frowned upon than marrying a second wife. I don’t have a problem with your opinion - but offer constructive advice. He’s choosing an option that’s allowed to him by our faith, whether he takes that option or not depends on what his situation is and whether he’s critically viewed his marriage from all aspects before reaching that conclusion (of second marriage).

I haven’t come across any research which suggests men are hardwired to want more spouses and reproduce. It is certainly no biological fact as far as I know. Again if u have read any research to the contrary plz share it.

And I am trying to think of it from the point of view of a woman who may be left with no education, no job and a child, looking to please a man who never loved her, becuz she unfortunately has no options