Second Marriage for children

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Yes I am the girl, was that confusing? :konfused:

I’m assuming that in that situation the couple has tried their best, including getting checked out by specialists and having tests that confirm if the infertility is in the husband or wife.

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haha weakest link. i wrote the same thing :blush:

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a womn is not supposed to remotely accept the concept of 2nd marriage....so thats why she was confused..

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My PERSONAL opinion is....

depends on how i feel about the relationship.

if because of the fact we cant have kids it has caused huge rifts and arguments and the relationship has not direction then leave.

if we are still strong and love each other and get through it then adopt

would never marry and bring a "sauthan". thats just wrong for doing it for the sake of a kid.

Peace out.

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i am not sure about that. i thought any women can breast feed a baby whether she has been pregnant before or not but i have read some medical statements so i guess its wrong.

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I totally agree with you =)

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*this is a reallly really really tough situation . ummm seriouslly dont even know what exactly i would do lol ..... but lets see .. if i really love him then his happiness would really matter to me, and i'm sure every wife loves their husband ... i mean why else would they still be in a relation with him if she didn't luvv him. so anywayz back to what i was saying ..my husbands happiness would really matter to meh ... obviously cuz i really luvv him (by the way no i'm not married, i'm just a student). so i would allow him to marry the 2nd time ... BUT ... if after marrige he can't keep balance between the 2 and starts loving her more then me and never really gave me time ... then i would just leave him .. cuz that obviously shows that he is no longer interested in me and is happy with the 2nd one. and seriouslly i'd be sooo soo sad .. cuz if he's happiness mattered soo much to me then why didn't my happiness mattered as much to him???.... maybe I loved him more then he loved me ??? *

There could be one more reason why he starts loving teh 2nd one more first of all maybe cuz she gave him the happiness that i couldn't and/or 2nd she is younger then me and is much more attractive then me.
a lot of things can vary ...anywayz lets say there was nothing wrong with me but Instead he was the reason why we couldn't have kids .. then i personally would be happy with just two of us . we would adopt if he wants ... cuz i love every kid i see lol .. i don't mind taking someone else's kid ...

Actually i would soo not mind adopting somone else's kid ... way bettah then giving birth lol =)

*Anywayz it's a really horrible situation to be in *

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break the relation...no point in adopting if hes thinking to get married again...he wants his OWN child..