Re: Searching
whoa! after reading all that kiara i am even more confused as to what a “decent” guy is for you.im gonna make an attempt at defining it though…well someone who is atleast average looking and not only respects you and can assure u a secure future but also somewhat take care of your mom…
i grasp from your account that your mom has been hurt by her first husband and the second one did not give her the security she needed…you yourself are haunted by the thoughts of an unsecure marriage and being used by a man…
again i will tell u that u cannot just go and pick any man and take his word or anyone’s word for that matter that he will be forever faithful to you, its all a matter of somewhat "stumbling’ upon the right guy ( i am excluding arranged marriages as u can see since they are ARRANGED)
yes your mother needs you but you also need to be aware of the fact that if you dont make an effort to befriend people, you might makea hasty decision regarding a life partner that u might regret. there are horrible people in every family, try to make friends outside your family and not think about them. alot of us have been hurt one way or another by sucky family matters and getting involved in other activites is the best way to not only forget about them but getting to know the thousands of people that will treat you with the love and respect you deserve.