Re: Scratching my head..
aww…they are nicer. that is why they will take good care of your wealth when you will be in ICU or oldhome. 
generally girls have three criteria at the age of 20…1. good looks and handsome. 2. if you are not good-looking at least be rich 3. if you are neither good-looking or rich, atleast be educated.
in your case you appears that not only you are naive but also you never had any interaction with any girl whatsoever.