Re: Scratching my head..
The thing is Sorrow…something you might not have thought about:
Not many 20 year old girls willingly fall in love with 37 year old men. Let’s face it…it does not happen often enough to be considered normal. Which means they will marry you out of a necessity of some sort…parental pressure…emotional blackmail…a failed romance that left them bitter and resolved to forget so they marry the first man that comes into sight…you.
If you think older women have baggage…you have no idea what baggage truly is. Some older women might have had a dalliance here or there…but they are mature and emotionally stable. Its usually a distant past. They’re much more confident and have a steadier head on their shoulders.
Its not say a match like you want doesn’t happen…but I don’t know of many happy matches.