Re: Saying yes to sex...
He quite clearly was asking or checking out the possibility of getting “it”.
Just remember two things what he said
"Love is a strong word and I've been hurt before, don't think I want to get into it again. I find you very attractive.."
and
"men" LOVE to make love, women make love to get LOVE....
You say you want to mend his broken heart and you probably hope that you can get him to wed you before he bed you but from the looks of it he does not seems to be interested in the wedding part. He is not even in the “I love you and but I cant marry you” category yet. Bluntly put his asking you direct means either he is so damn sure of your feelings about him that he took a risk or the risk was not risky for him. I mean I would never take such a chance so early if I was interested in a lady. So be warned and don’t you go opening male bashing threads afterwards...