Some of my friends sign off from MSN by saying Much Love Aisha or Luv Yew! Allah Hafiz! Mwah! Hugz...
I myself use this sequence to say Allah Hafiz to my best friend on MSN. However what I have never thought before now is that is it really necessary to say luv yew every time?
By love, of course you guys know that there is more than one kind of love? For sisters, for moms, for dads, for friends, etc etc.
So do you really need to say luv yew every time to express your love for the person, or the fact that you care about them?
If you do not say it to someone ever, not even once will they ever know that you care about them? or you really love them!? that your friendship is true and that you will be loyal to them no matter what?
And if you never use these kinds of words would the people ever know?
Aisha mohabbat agar suchhi ho aur sirf dil main chuppi ho to bhi kum uz kum usko to zaroor nazar aa jati hai jis say hoti hai aur doosron ko bhi ziadatar ya aksar.
Main nain aaj tuk kisi say naheen kaha I love you. But in this country they say but do they realy love that person? I don't think so.
I know Aisha kay main aap say abhi kahoon kay main aap say bohat pyar karta hoon to aap ko yaqeen naheen aay ga laikin haqeeqat yay hai kay yeh such hai. I love everyone. All the creation of Allah like my own family member so do I have to tell every single person in all meeting that I love you?
I don't think so. But my way of talking to you and also talking to you would explain to you that I do love you and care about you.
If I reply in your thread and or quote your post it means I love you and care about you. You will find my love and caring the way I talk to you and how I talk to you.
These days ppl become so much mutlubi if they have any type of concern with you then they would talk to you otherwise won't bother to talk to you.
I myself don't talk to ppl whom I don't like.
I don't like saying every time I love you but I'm not against either but that wouldn't have that much value in my eyes. As I give importance to the action and behaviour of the person.
If person is saying I love you and not behaving as they suppose to then I don't want to listen to fake sentence.
Wo kahtay hain na Roz roz ka ana ahmiaat kho deta hai. Ussi tarha roz roz ka kahna bhi ahmiaat kho deta hai.
Now I believe to tell ppl or say once or twice to let them know. Otherwise sometimes ppl don't understand.
Yeah it's upto you. If you like to say or listen every day it's ok. If you don't then it's ok for me.
As few days ago I heard from a person that they say I love you in each conversation in the end as if they die. They will remember that he/she said I love you.
Why would I like to listen I love you from a na mahram. Ewww no way. I make me fully mad. As girls and guys even muslims do chat with and make friendships with na maharm.
I love you Aisha. I realy do. I don't know why. lol May be tum mujhay achchi lugti ho. Pata naheen kioon.
…I dont believe in this concept love wove..
, but come to think of it, nobody has ever signed off like that with me:bummer:
