How would u react to someone in your relatives having Porn in their computers and their kids 10 and 7 having full access to that computer. Would you do anything about it or sit back and not do anything? and if yes than what? What if the kids are already exposed to that material?
wouldnt it impact on their lives as well?
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I would be fuming. My laptop and family PC is password protected and the kids cannot get onto it without me keying it in. I would be really angry and would be thinking how it got on there in the first place. Im the only adult in this house, I have blocks ups coming up on unsuitable sites and Im always around when the kids are logged on. I have put parental controls on their use accounts and I know you cannot be too careful. If they are on google, they may or may not encounter dangerous unsuitable images. I guess its up to the parents really.
That said, if any of my cousins/nephews got onto my PC I would have to check their internet history and look for any downloads etc. I always do this whenever its used. And yes, I would confront the person who I think has been doing this, it's obscene and will have no place in my home. I accept that the kids will know and learn about sex etc at school but what will they learn from porn?
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If its someone elses pc...i wouldnt bother with it.... But if someone was savong stuff on mine... I would get to the bottom of it.
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I would be disturbed to know that children have access to such stuff but I would not say anything because it is really none of my business the computer is not mine and so are the children. Anybody viewing that stuff on my computer is out of question and if by chance happens I'll definitely take the corrective measures.
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You could've just deleted it.
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i have deleted so many times......its kids father saving it...........i am worried about kids. they have few computers but only father and kids use them all...........i am concerned.
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Hmm. The least he could do is hide it in some folder. What a stupid dad.
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My concern would be why your hubby is doing this. Have you confronted him? Have you told him how dangerous it is and hoe potentially upsetting it could be? Have the kids actually seen this filth? Who's the administrator of the PC? Can you change the passwords?
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This is YOUR husband doing it? I would really give him hell then. Tell him to be careful about getting his jollies via pornsites especially on a shared pc... Taht his KIDS have access to... Man i wonder what the kids think of thwir father... I would die of shame if i was into this kinda stuff and my kid knew... Shudder
U asked bout how or if this would leave an impact on the kids.... Erm yes imho.... I know most teens go through the horny phase (some as u can see from this thread never outgrow it), but what r u teaching ure son or daughter by this? That women r a piece of meat, are worth nothing since they open their legs for anyone and most diturbing of all ... "hey if dad does it, it cant be all bad"
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i have deleted so many times......its kids father saving it...........i am worried about kids. they have few computers but only father and kids use them all...........i am concerned.
What the hell =|
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Why is he even watching it :@
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Your right Rizla86 :k:
If this is in your household you need to talk and maybe flex some muscle and lay down some rules…
If it’s somebody elses house then you point out the problem and then leave them… if they ignore you let em go to hell and stay there you did your bit the rest is thier own problem.
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This is YOUR husband doing it? I would really give him hell then. Tell him to be careful about getting his jollies via pornsites especially on a shared pc... Taht his KIDS have access to... Man i wonder what the kids think of thwir father... I would die of shame if i was into this kinda stuff and my kid knew... Shudder
U asked bout how or if this would leave an impact on the kids.... Erm yes imho.... I know most teens go through the horny phase (some as u can see from this thread never outgrow it), but what r u teaching ure son or daughter by this? That women r a piece of meat, are worth nothing since they open their legs for anyone and most diturbing of all ... "hey if dad does it, it cant be all bad"
Well said, couldn't agree with you more. Kids learn from their parents behaviour. 'If dad is doing it then its fine,I'll do it too!'How old are your kids Roshni?
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only word comes in mind for such dad/mom is psychopath
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- I would talk to him about the impact this would have on kids. (t does)
- I would delete all the websites and actually get a monitoring software on the computer that kids use.
- If he doesn't listen, he needs to get his own personal laptop
It is one thing to say that kids are exposed to this material outside of the home but it has total different (negative) ramifications when kids see this material inside of the home. 7 and 10 are not even teenage years. It is your job as a parent to shelter them from this type of exposure this early on in life.
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I'd dump him and the PC.
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Why PC? format the drive and use it …
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Ludites rule man! 
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My concern would be why your hubby is doing this. Have you confronted him? Have you told him how dangerous it is and hoe potentially upsetting it could be? Have the kids actually seen this filth? Who's the administrator of the PC? Can you change the passwords?
not my husband....i said relative..........infact close relative.
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This is YOUR husband doing it? I would really give him hell then. Tell him to be careful about getting his jollies via pornsites especially on a shared pc... Taht his KIDS have access to... Man i wonder what the kids think of thwir father... I would die of shame if i was into this kinda stuff and my kid knew... Shudder
U asked bout how or if this would leave an impact on the kids.... Erm yes imho.... I know most teens go through the horny phase (some as u can see from this thread never outgrow it), but what r u teaching ure son or daughter by this? That women r a piece of meat, are worth nothing since they open their legs for anyone and most diturbing of all ... "hey if dad does it, it cant be all bad"
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he is a relative not my husband.........i am thinking of confronting his wife(aunty) over it. i have done several times before but she didnt took it seriously. and have also deleted so many times. her kids look up to us for everything......advice, opinion and we help them in their studies as uncle is dumb ass father who cant even spell his own kids name but can spell all bollywood's actresses.. and aunty is not educated.
everyone in my family say to leave it as its not our business but i feel for the kids. they are already acting so weird as aunty wants them to top in everything and they dont even have right environment. too much pressure on kids to achieve.