Sati in Bihar, India

http://www.samachar.com/showurl.htm?rurl=http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/articleshow/1500612.cms?headline=Woman~commits~‘sati’~in~Bihar~

An old woman recently committed ‘sati’ after the death of her husband in Bihar. She jumped into the funeral pyre out of her own volition but that does not undermine the fact that still customs/rituals like ‘sati’ exist in India. The mindset of people is broadening rapidly but it will still take atleast 10-20 years to totally get rid of these customs among Indians living in villages. I sincerely hope and believe that the frequency of occurrence of these incidents will go down and down every time such an incident takes place.

I also hope that the hate-filled hawks/jerks (they themselves know whom I am referring to) will not use this as an opportunity to malign India.


PATNA: An old woman has allegedly committed ‘sati’ by jumping into the funeral pyre of her husband in a Bihar village, though officials Sunday said a police report on the incident was awaited.

Sita Devi, 77, allegedly committed sati Thursday in Sidhpur village of Gaya district.

Her son Rama Shankar confirmed that his mother had committed sati by jumping into the funeral pyre of his father Sugreo Prasad, who had died after a prolonged illness.

Sita Devi was very religious and used to say that she wanted to die before her husband, local reports quoted Shankar as saying.

When the family members were asleep after cremating the 82-year-old father Thursday night, Sita Devi went to the cremation ground and jumped into the still burning funeral pyre and died subsequently, according to the son.

“She was found missing on Friday morning and the family members started looking for her. They later found her burnt body in the funeral pyre,” a relative said.

While the alleged incident has created a sensation in Gaya district, the administration is yet to take any action.

The local police have been asked to submit a report on the alleged incident, a senior district administration official told IANS.

Meanwhile, many people started thronging the site where Sita Devi committed sati to pay tribute to her, even as a makeshift temple was put up by villagers there to worship the “sati mata”.

Two year ago, one Rukia Devi, 80, allegedly committed sati in Shakardiha village of Samastipur district.

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Even though it says 'allegedly' we know from other threads and news sati happens in Bharat to this date and unfortunately innocent women will continue to lose their lives by this barbaric religious way.

Its about time Bharatis/Indians take real action to avoid killing of innocent women and some other rituals like sacrifice of children.

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I don't think it'll take 10-20 years to get rid of a custome which has been in society for 100s of years.... it might take another generation or 2 to get rid of such customs.

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I doubt that.

With hinuds seeing their lifestyle being threatened with a growing non-hindu population, internet, tv, driving hindus into more secularist agendas

many hardline hindus would want to preserve their customs more feverently than ever before

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Captain1 and mercy both have good points. Hindus do not preach thier religion and the only way they can preserve their heritage is by revival of "Hindutva" :)

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I do not know exactly how much time it will take, but things are changing rapidly. I do not have the figures with me, but other customs like 'dowry' are also becoming less common, we do not get to hear the news of newly married girls getting burnt now a days, 10-20 years ago you would have seen one dowry incident every day in the news papers, love marriages are becoming more common these days. In a country as diverse as India, with so many problems associated with different religions, states, cultures and country as a whole, it will take a long time to eradicate those problems. Practically speaking, it's impossible to get a country 100% free of these problems, but if we can get them down to a certain level, I'll think India has become what it was supposed to be.

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Revival I agree, But I do not think you need to preach something in order to make people understand it. Without being biased towards Hinduism/Hindutva, I think you'll appreciate the fact that it's not EASY to run a country with so much diversity and part of the credit goes to Hinduism. And before you point to Godhra :), you should also think of people celebrating Diwali and Eid with each other, it's not EASY.

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I agree, its not possible to get a 100% problem free country these days due to several factors. One of the reasons that you don't get to read the news about dowry, sati (and other old-fashion-customs) could be that they are going down in urban areas but in rural areas I am pretty sure such things still happen frequently and the only reason they don't become "news" is that these things are "custom" which don't need to get reported.

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Barbaric I agree, religious I dont, call it culture if you may, though it does not change anything.
You cannot take actions to eradicate these problems, it's more than a disease or a tumor and unfortunately/fortunately it takes more than a cure or an operation. Unfortunate because it cannot be done quickly, fortunate because once it is done it will not come back again, and with it will go many other flaws in the society as well. The only way is by changing the mindset of people and that comes only through education and that is HAPPENING.

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For all you wrote, I only know that if 10-20 years ago if you were reading 10 such news articles per week in the news papers and now you are getting to read only 2 (with the addition of online news sites and 2 is just an example) that does mean something.
Well if you agree that such occurrences are becoming rarer in the urban areas, wont common sense say that the frequency is going down in the rural areas as well.

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Well it's the opposite that might be happening. It's the lifestyle of people from other religions that is changing more than hindus' lifestyles and it's natural. The main reason you hear the hindu leaders talk more about it is because they are the majority and they get heard and seen more than the other religious leaders.

I guess they would, but depends if they form the majority, which they do not.

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^ I don't read "printed papers", heck only go to select online sites. The only reason I presumed such incidents are occurring less-frequently is because less number of such news are reported here on Gupshup :D ... but then that is not really a good standard, is it? :)

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I said, use your COMMON sense.

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I am not trying to give a proof here, I am just identifying an indicator and it's for you to make an intelligent conclusion here, too bad if you cant.

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I'll take leave now, will discuss more later.

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^ its better to take leave rather than answer one post by 3 posts :p

Yes, if the news are really going down then chances are that its happening less frequently, I'm not too sure about rural areas as to how good a coverage urban papers provide to rural happenings. Atleast in Pakistan, usually big rural news make way in urban papers i.e. bad panchayat/jirga verdicts like the ones everyone knows now (Mukhatara mai) etc.

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Said who???

You just want to make points, dont you? :)
Sidhpur where this incident took place was a village.

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says me :stuck_out_tongue:

I am not an expert of Indian geography, so if Sidhpur is a village then good for you (and India of course) :k:

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"Modern India".

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I think you have missed reading other threads giving quotes from hinduism books promoting this evil act of Sati. Its OK. You might have read different books or will say its not in hinduism to follow some of its own books.