Re: Sas hoon tow aisee
^my dear sakhis,
in your cases, with respect to their mother in laws,
your husbands need to come to their senses!
Mom and wife are unequal forces on the men.
these forces can cooperate to have their respective respectable relationships with the man as a son and as a husband.
women as mil and dil, must not destroy each other's respect and make the poisonous triangle of son, dil and mil.
if anything they ought to gang up on the man, if he is not fulfilling his duties as a son and as a husband. each party has to be fair and reasonable in its role!
& it wont happen on its own or if u and ur mother in lawas will eat away at each others' peace, if they themselves do not take a fair action.
there should be a whole class given to young men at husbands to-be, to young women as to-be dils and moms as mils to-be - on how to balance their relationships.
we cannot have a brokerage of the man, now can we.
none the less , no man is to be empathied as a 'poor lil baby'
if women can leave tehir parents' houses and take on a whole family, the men, at least ought to do all they can to take a stand for the wife.
other wise, it is better to stay unmarried or to hand back the sons to their moms!