Same name

[Sara516]

Re: Same name

@ruby17

Hmm I am surprised that people don’t think it’s strange.

It’s not about them calling each other by name. I agree people can have pet names etc.

Imagine introducing yourself to people: ‘Hi my name is Sabah and this is my husband Sabah’

Or when your families or friends are talking about you… which Sabah do you mean (male or female?)

In fact this happened at their meeting where someone said ’ Do you want some tea Sabah?’ and the female replied even though question was really addressed to the male one.

Yeah it’s not the end of the world, I agree, but I do think it is going to be very odd to have the same name!

Its not that the same names are strange, it’s that it would be a potential dealbreaker for an otherwise good rishta that’s absolutely maddingly STRANGE.

Wouldn’t it be weird to have the same name as your jeth?

I know many Aishas and Sanas but it’s never been weird.

and finally how do you even have the nerve to think its OK to reject him but want his brother? Marriage isn’t a grocery store that you can pick and choose the produce. Pathetic desis man.