Re: Same name
Imagine a friend of the guy comes to his home and says this in front of his wife… “Yar Rifat tumhari shirt bari pasand ayi mujhay, aik do din ke liye udhaar de do”… and the guy looks at his wife and wife looks at him! hawwwwwww haye!
On a serious note,
OP if it bothers her that much then look somewhere else unless she likes younger brother more and is using the name thing to kick out Rifat Bhai… I mean the elder one!